debbijbl Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 my daughter is 19 and hates me. I know I have made alot of mistakes but she is making my life so hard. Her dad (my husband is 21 years older than me) and she hates him. He has cancer and she is just wanting to always be gone. I don't know what to do. She says everything she is; is my fault....I know that I didn't want to be where I was in my life but I tried my best...now my past is her reason to be the way she is....and if I say no to anything; she goes crazy and I don't know what to do..,..she has wrecked l car; the engine ruined in 2 others; and is on the 4th but she doesn't care....I am so busy trying to take care of her dad who has cancer that I don't know how to help her....when I say no to anything; she throws a fit...what can I do???? I would've known before but now I am burnt out & at a place of who gives a ***** so please some advice???????????????????
Green Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 try and make it a possotive who gives a ********** you cant save the world, just maybe a fraction of your sanity and happyness
Leia Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 How about some counseling? It could be that she thinks you're not paying attention to her since you're caring for your husband. She should be helping you out instead of treating you and husband this way.
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