mine Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 Major issues...my boyfriend of 9 months just dumped me, when things were going great and we were closer than ever. I know I had a tone in my voice for a few days...I was worried I was pregnant. I needed to talk but, he just got custody of his son 2 weeks prior. Anyway, it was my birthday and he canceled because he had a meeting for his son...I understood. He said he would make it up to me and we would celebrate later. We talked for the next few days...granted not as much as usual or seeing each other. But we were together 5 days prior...with the kids...cooked dinner...went to the movies...played games, etc. Then, he drove up and went to lunch with us. then, he called and dumped me...saying it's because he cares so much and liked me, he still does, but he can't give me what I want and I deserve so he had to end it...because it wouldn't be fair...and that he has no time even for himself. I was crushed...I had no say...worse...I turned out to be pregnant...only to miscarry two days after. I told him, he asked if there was anything I needed...of course, mad...I said no way...I am strong...I'll through it...I don't need you, maybe when I was physically/emotionally better, I would like to talk...he said to call him...when I felt ready so I did, he hasn't called back...its been two days... Is it over, did he mean what he said? Is there a chance? This has been very hard...nothing was wrong before...he was always sincere...honest, etc. One more thing...upon breaking up...he said it was because his kid was so screwed up. I too, have a child...
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