imstuckinatree3 Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 Do women care if the men that they date are virgins? Do some see it as a turn on, or see it as a sign of the guys will power. Or do others see it as the guy being a loser that cant get any? Just curious, cuz im 20m and still a virgin.
spookie Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 Do women care if the men that they date are virgins? Do some see it as a turn on, or see it as a sign of the guys will power. Or do others see it as the guy being a loser that cant get any? Just curious, cuz im 20m and still a virgin. That depends on how YOU see it. Do you think you're a loser? I'm dating a 24 y.o. virgin right now. Not only is he a virgin, but before me he'd never even kissed anyone before. It doesn't bother me at all. I like how he's like a blank slate I can program with MY preferences. And how his inexperience allows me to see everything with fresher eyes.
SeraBella Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 it depends the reason he's a virgin, I guess. If he's passionate about remaining a virgin for a certain reason (waiting for marriage, love, not wanting children, disease), I think that's impressive. But if he mopes about how he's single and never had sex and blah blah...i think it's a turn off. Not because he's a virgin...but because of the lack of confidence. The fact that he's a virgin isn't a turn on or turn off...it's the other circumstances.
EYECANDY000 Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I honestly dont know if I have the patience to be with a guy who is a virgin. Dont get me wrong , knowing that he is untouched and pure is a great thing, but I guess having to show him everything would be a little frustrating. Hmmm, wait! you have to teach people what you like anyways so I guess that doesnt make since. Skip everything I said. Yes i would date someone who is a virgin. But if they tell me they are making me wait til marriage then I would have to dump them.
Potatocakes Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 I love virgins :] I think of it the same as the first poster, as a fresh slate.
bmrrll07 Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 i think it depends on the girl and the guys reasoning for being a virgin. i personly prefere a guy with alittle experince. but on the other hand i have deflowered a 21 year old virgin and he was one of my best i had. if your that neverive the first time ask her what she wants done, trust me shes not going to mind telling you want she likes and how she likes it. and really the first time with anyone no matter how many you have been with you still learn what each other likes.
Green Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 i love men who are virgins by choice you mean like priests and monks
Leia Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 you mean like priests and monks Oh that's a good one. I prefer men with experience.
spookie Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 Oh that's a good one. I prefer men with experience. I guess I prefer men with experience too, although lack of it (obviously) isn't a deal-breaker. It just makes me more confident to know a guy has had a chance to sow some wild oats before getting involved with me. With virgins, I'm afraid they value you me (most) in a teacher capacity.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 I see potential for good on either side of the fence, but I gotta say I admire a man if he's a virgin by choice, waiting for some one truly special, even for marriage. My friend's 21 and he's a virgin. I think it's quite respectable.
Green Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 Id like to teach you a few things I just made up
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