...I'm finally coming out of my shell...but will this sexual side scare him off?...

[XxBacktoBlackXx]

Okay, so basically I have been dating my bf for about 4 months. We recently had sex for the first time. It always takes me awhile to really come out of my shell and now I feel more comfortable with him. I know this sounds weird, but I'm wondering if you would think it would freak someone out if all of the sudden out of nowhere their significant other showed a major sexual side. I mean, from regular sex to wanting to give a sensual strip tease, then watch a porn, and **** while watching it. Or after first greeting him throwing him against the wall and going at it...like that. That's really how I am sexually but it takes awhile for it to come out. Would this be kind of scary for someone that's not used to that...? Or do you think that is a really good thing?

[EYECANDY000]

I wouldnt see it as scary. Have you guys discussed before about how you like to be satisfied sexually? When people have sex for the first time , no one gives their all on the first day. You discuss it and then once you are comfortable with each other , then you do it

[Texan]

Okay, so basically I have been dating my bf for about 4 months. We recently had sex for the first time. It always takes me awhile to really come out of my shell and now I feel more comfortable with him. I know this sounds weird, but I'm wondering if you would think it would freak someone out if all of the sudden out of nowhere their significant other showed a major sexual side. I mean, from regular sex to wanting to give a sensual strip tease, then watch a porn, and **** while watching it. Or after first greeting him throwing him against the wall and going at it...like that. That's really how I am sexually but it takes awhile for it to come out. Would this be kind of scary for someone that's not used to that...? Or do you think that is a really good thing?

 

Speaking as a guy, if my romantic interest did this it would definitely up the interest level... then again, I'm adventurous... only one way to find out... I'd say go for it... if he can't handle you sexually then I'd venture to say it wouldn't last long... would depend on whether your needs were being met.

[Mustang Sally]

Good for you, for coming out of your shell.

My bet is, that it will only improve things between you.

 

But - as I've had brought to my attention recently - he may have a bit of confusion regarding the new set of "rules," if you will. Be prepared to help him out with that if it occurs.

 

Good luck!

[freeandlost]

I'm wondering if you would think it would freak someone out if all of the sudden out of nowhere their significant other showed a major sexual side. I mean, from regular sex to wanting to give a sensual strip tease, then watch a porn, and **** while watching it. Or after first greeting him throwing him against the wall and going at it...like that. That's really how I am sexually but it takes awhile for it to come out. Would this be kind of scary for someone that's not used to that...? Or do you think that is a really good thing?

 

I have this same exact issue. I think it depends on the guy. The guy I am interested in is shy, but I told him straight out how I am and have really good guy friends that know me and can vouch that I just happen to be this way (and not a wh0*e). The guy didn't let on that he was scared, but I did back it down a few notches and am trying to take it easy on him for now

[Enema]

That's pretty tame stuff, he won't be scared off at all.