romance-me-ox Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 i really need some advice here. i found this site & thought i'd give it a go.. me & my ex, we have a lot of history. we've liked each other since april last year, & we actually went out for four months. we had something special, but, he doesnt exactly know what he wants & kept ending it & breaking my heart over & over again. yet, my feelings for him dont change. it doesnt make a lot of sense. after everything hes done to me you'd think i would hate him. i'm far from it. i still love him. at least, i think i do.. i'm not a single girl. i've been with my ex's best friend for 4 days now, i was with him for about 3 weeks, but, i ended it cos of my feelings for my ex. its like, we cant live with each other but we can't live without each other. i dont know. its complicated. but whats happened now is, my ex wants me back again (if we DID get back together, it would be about, the seventh time, at least), & i'm with a different guy, who i do like a lot, but not like how i feel for my ex. i know that if i stay with who i'm with now, it could probably work out & eventually we could have something really special, but i dont know whether i'm gunna be able to forget my ex, i love him too much, these lingering feelings always appear & remind me. i also know that if i end my relationship with the guy i'm with now, & get back with my ex, it MIGHT work, but, people dont change too often, even tho he says he has, & well, its a big risk, if we dont work again, cos i'd have lost a really great guy. arghh. i dont know what to do ? x
Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 you guys have broken up 6 times???? omg...thats alot...why dont you give it one last shot and tell him that this will be the last time that he cant be playing with you and getting back and breaking up over and over again cus its like hes playing a game...but you need to set the limits to this...we all want what we cant have and its like when a guy rejects us the more we like him for some stupid reason...well i hope everything goes well with you bye
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