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What kind of man calls his W in front of his best friend a C---, W---- 2 beers and a car, damged goods, a sinking ship and all around just a f--- up b---- and he was going to trade me in for a younger woman, maybe 2 ? (he knows I am a good looking 41 year old that can hold my own even against the "young ones"

 

Then when the fight is over said he was just defending himself when I called him a sorry H and father that drinks and does drungs too much....my question is how can you say you love them and or are IN LOVE with your spouse and say such terrible things and not mean them after?

 

My mom always said that 50% of what people say or more is the truth on how they really feel, GOD I hope that is not true !

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What a d***head!!! I think people cheating on their spouses are worthless and you should just drop lose them.

 

Do you still love this man?

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You are correct, his own son heard him call me a C--- and could not believe it. I do love him, probably because we have been together so long. But, I know now more than ever, we are not meant. I cannot look at myself everyday if I allow someone to emotionally abuse me when they are pissed anymore. I do not care that he says "I did not mean it, just like you did not mean the things you said either" But, I do not attack him the way he attacks me now....he is NOT the man I knew a long time ago that could never hurt me !

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Are you kidding me?? He called you the C word??:mad:

 

There is absolutely no way I would tolerate that from my spouse.

 

Why are you still with this guy???

 

When are you going to show some self respect and leave this loser?

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I'm with Pixie... you should really leave this a** of a loser...

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I am in the middle of doing so and every time I get my crap together he starts telling me he is going to call my work / friends and tell them what a big loser I am etc....

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And what is he?!?! He's the BIG loser... ooh some men can really piss the hell out of me!

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I am in the middle of doing so and every time I get my crap together he starts telling me he is going to call my work / friends and tell them what a big loser I am etc....

 

Tell him if does that you're going to tell people that he slept with his sister.

That will shut him up really quick. Tell him you'll put it on flyers in the parking lot of where he works- if you so much as hear that he's said a peep about you. Mean it.

 

And even if he tells them so what? They are not really your friends if they are going to change the way they treat you over his lies.

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I heard that......when we get mad we say the worst things on the planet to each other, that cannot be love.....I bring the sister up all the time when we fight, you know that ! But, he hates her as well now (she and her H slept with his best friends W at our house) so she is scum too now, I TOLD him she was not Miss Innocent, he did not believe me. Her brother (the one she grew up, not my H, his 1/2 brother) told me they were swingers a long time ago. When I mentioned that to my H last summer, he said that is not true and that she would be mad if she knew he was telling lies about her like that ! Well well, he found out it was true....he tells me she is not what he thought she was, meaning what? What did he expect from her, blood?

 

All his sibs are pretty much f---- up, so I think he thought she was going to be his angel that rescued him from his lonely life not knowing his dad and that side of the family, who knows ! He is just f--- up to me and it now just makes me feel sorry for him !

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