anotherother24 Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 I'm wondering whats the longest period of no contact you've had with an EX that ended things, if anythings gotten better, or they changed their mind at all and contacted you? It's been about 4 months here...and I know I should give up, but I'm still holding out some small hope that he could call....just looking for any nice stories lol It makes me feel a little better to see I'm not the only one who isn't automatically over this breakup stuff...some people just tell me to get over it but I still miss him and it doesn't help that we can't even talk about it...
screwedup55 Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Sorry. I can't offer any nice stories. I can relate with your desires though. The people who say get over it are well meaning, but forget that you are looking for understanding, a shoulder to cry on, a ear that will just listen. You know that you have to move on, but you don't want to. There was a connection made and it is so hard to give it up. It takes time to heal and move on.
miami45uconn Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Im headed right down the road your own only im 2 months behind. My ex girlfriend stoppd answering anything of mine the 2nd week after she broke up with me. We were together for 2.5 years and still i guess im still in shock just because what she had said and showed me over the years and what she said i meant to her and all that blah blah. Its funny people say no contact is the best way to go about things. But even if she yelled at me or keep telling me she loved me just wasnt in love like i was or whatever i was better when i KNEW her emotions towards me rather than now i dont know anything if she ever thinks about me or she hates me( which yesterday her best friend said she did, for reasons i couldnt give u) or why she doesnt want to be friends or anything. So at night or day dreaming or whatever small bits of hope and stuff arises for me and i imagine things or scenarios that probably wont happen. But i have such a hopeful heart and the first person i let in fully, let me down COMPLETLEY. I used to not ever let ANYONE in and agasint my own advice i did it and now im really afraid to do it again. But i Hope for both of our sakes this who moving on thing starts working sooner than later. I miss her so much and she was my best friend so just getting over it, aint happening. Good luck
PinkRibbon Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 I am sorry no good news here either. My husband left 4 months ago and we have been in NC pretty much from the start. We have talked 4 times a total of about 20 mins about the house. No reconcilliation here on his part. Sorry.
Ormolu611 Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 I'm wondering whats the longest period of no contact you've had with an EX that ended things, if anythings gotten better, or they changed their mind at all and contacted you? It's been about 4 months here...and I know I should give up, but I'm still holding out some small hope that he could call....just looking for any nice stories lol It makes me feel a little better to see I'm not the only one who isn't automatically over this breakup stuff...some people just tell me to get over it but I still miss him and it doesn't help that we can't even talk about it... Well, my ex left me uncerimoniously nearly a year ago (February of 2007) after almost 10 years together and I have not heard a word from her. The cool thing is, that I don't really care anymore. Birthdays have come and gone, and the holidays - no word. Not from her and most importantly, not from me. You will miss him, and that's okay. You will miss him less and less as time goes by. Stay strong - sounds like your doing great.
sedgwick Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 It's been 6 months for me. He broke up with me the morning he left to go on tour for three months. We'd been together for a year and I thought we were madly in love. I haven't seen him since.
D-Lish Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 I've remained on good terms with ex's- but never had a reconciliation. The worst break up for me was when someone I dated for over a year dumped me over the phone and never spoke to me again. That was 2 years ago. That one hurt. The good thing about no contact is that you have a chance to heal uninterrupted.
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