Skyling Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Let me tell you about the guy first, he (like myself), has Aspergers Syndrome (big words meaning we are both socially ungifted.) He is 17, and I am 16. He's not been in the dating game since the 2nd grade from what he has told me, which I believe as I had to teach him how to kiss. We have been friend for a few months, and he told me he loved me over the phone recently. He does not call often (understandable, he doesn't have a home phone and limited cell-phone time), and I'm usually the one pursuing him. He told me once, after I told him "if you can't take care of yourself, how can you care for a woman?" and he seemed to not care for this statement as he replied "I can take care of a woman, believe me.". I asked him once id he loved me as more than a friend and he pretty blatantly said "OF COURSE!!!". He has stated he'd like to go out with me, and once refferred to me as his girlfriend. I have a nickname for him, "Kitty" (he has the appearence strangley like that of a cat)and when I call him this, or make a reference to his "kittyness" he meows. He tells me often "I wish I could get laid" because he's a virgin. He's very nice to me, and he doesn't normally get angry with me, or project any hatred towards me. He does act coldly sometimes, but he told me that it's "it's just my way of flirting with you." I'm very bad at telling this, and I have the feeling he wouldnt know what to do if I pursued him, so should I? He normally doesn't seek me out, it's the other way around, but he rarely angers at my attention. (And side question, he has been sick lately, so is it okay to just not go to his house and not bother him until he feels better?)
Jilly Bean Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 OMG! Spookie has to weigh in on this. She has recently started dating a guy with AS! I am sure she will have some great insight for you.
bmrrll07 Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 i think you mit want to move on. he don't sound like hes intersteted. if a guy really likes you they call, they find time to see you. it sounds like to me like all hes after is sex.
Author Skyling Posted January 22, 2008 Author Posted January 22, 2008 i think you mit want to move on. he don't sound like hes intersteted. if a guy really likes you they call, they find time to see you. it sounds like to me like all hes after is sex. It's not really that he CAN call me though.
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