kaycee2007 Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 I used to work with a guy who was a flirt and so am i so we got on well. I knew he fancied me but never pushed it as he had a girlfriend. He got engaged in Feb 2007 and by this time we were very close friends so accepted the invitation. I went to the engagment and he could not keep away from me. About a week later we went on a works night out and i ended up kissing him. We started going out after work for drinks but that was all (his fiance worked nightshift) then i started sleeping with him in June and i loved being with him. Unfortunatly his fiance found out about us and left him in october, he disappeared and i lost contact until he foned me in november and wanted to meet. since then i have been seeing him 3-4 time a week and love being with him but i think he only wants me for the sex. i phoned him after work last night and another woman answered his phone, when i confronted him about it he said he didnt know what was going on with them she might me his "new bit on the side" Plus he is still in contact with his ex who often pops round to "see him" or " have a few drinks" with him I am only 18 and this guys 31 is he really worth all the pain? hope this makes sense! x
Computers Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 since then i have been seeing him 3-4 time a week and love being with him but i think he only wants me for the sex. There you have your answer.
GreenEyedLady Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 If you are looking for something serious, this guy is not it right now... If you're just looking for FWB's then he seems to be your guy... What are you wanting?
BetrayedMM Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Yes it all makes sense. You are a bit on the side, he's boinking another bit on the side, and keeps his(supposed) ex around for yet another bit. Plus, he's almost old enough to be your dad. No, he doesn't love you, no matter what he said. No, he's not worth the pain. You sound like a nice girl, go find yourself a monogamous guy. Don't put up with this nonsense, it could be dangerous to your health.
RCCDMA Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 You have got to find someone who can commit to just you. Trust me on this you need to find somebody who loves you. This guy does not or he wouldn't be able to stand being away from you. If he realizes it too late then it is his loss. Apparently you have something special so why wait for him to make up his mind. Go find yourself someone special.
whichwayisup Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 I am only 18 and this guys 31 is he really worth all the pain? You are WASTING your young and youthful life on some older guy who is using you for sex. He has some issues, and the longer you stay around him, the more he'll suck you into his drama filled life and all his crap. Don't hang out with him anymore, don't let him use you!
nextel Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 I am only 18 and this guys 31 is he really worth all the pain? Yes your post makes sense. You know, at 18, why dont you date someone that is in their 20's? This guy is toying with you and it is not worth the pain. If you think for one second that he is using you for sex, then he probably is. Stop sleeping with him and see how fast he will vanish. He is not looking to get tied down or for a g/f. He wants someone he can be with sexually on his time.
Author kaycee2007 Posted January 22, 2008 Author Posted January 22, 2008 i really wish i could have him but im starting to think he would never be just mine! theres such a spark when were together i just wouldnt even know where to start explaining it! all i know is im hurting but dont know if i can walk away! x
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