bones1 Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 I am working overseas, and have met a girl i started to date. We are both 32, single, and no children. We met out at a club, hit it off, and stayed together that night.. We went out a couple more times, and she had to leave for a week with her father. When we met,she told me she was seeing 2 other people. Since she was over my apartment and a girl kept calling me, she was pretty jealous..The girl is a girl I met before her.. The past weekend we went away together for 3 days. The entire weekend her phone was ringing, and she didnt answer sometimes, sometimes she did etc.. Since I am not fluent in the language used here, I am a little lost as to what she is even saying on the phone. At times she tells me how much she likes me etc, and at other times she blatantly tries to make me jealous. She talks about the other guys she is seeing etc.. The main thing I notice is this... If I want to leave, or if am fed up, then she completely begs to be with me etc.. If the status quo is fine, and we are getting along, it seems to me she tries to create turmoil. By either making me jealous, being rude etc. An example would be her saying rude things to me while we are on a date, I say I will go home, and I get her a cab. She gets in the cab happily. She takes the cab one block, gets out, and runs to me apologizing, begging to me that she doesnt want to be alone.. I am basically lost as to what is even going on. While we were away she suggested setting me up with a friend of hers.... I am assuming to play some kind of game.. Then later she is asking me desperately if I will call her once the weekend is over, and how she would obviously never set me up with any of her friends... If I touch her, sometimes she pulls away... if I am sitting alone, she comes to lovingly touch me.... Have any of you experienced this, and what exactly does this mean? Is it an insecure thing? Is she really seeing many people and not thinking of me when I am gone? We made love all weekend, and she told me I was the only one....Then she brings up other guys at other times... In the past week we spent 5 out of 7 days and nights together, however, I am still at the strange point of feeling wierd to call her.. As though I should be playing a game to make her miss me... I feel on one hand I should feel free to call, as we were together so much and maybe it is time to be more mature. ... On the other hand, I feel as though I get a better response from her when I am not overly into her.. Any suggestions?
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