cubrunner Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 My ex-girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. It had been a long relationship (around 2 years) and when it happened it was a rough time for me. I hadn't spoken with her at all, really. The first few weeks after the breakup she emailed or IMed me a couple times to try to talk to me, but I was too angry and upset to even respond. I wanted either to be her man, or nothing at all...I just felt too strongly to even consider being "friends." Last Friday, she IMed me for the first time in a long time, and we had a short albeit awkward conversation. I guess at that point, I felt as if I had finally put the emotions and my feelings for her behind me, and that I could finally talk to her. But at the time, I had no idea that her boyfriend of two months had just broken up with her. Now that I've found out that she's single again, feelings are coming back that I thought I had extinguished. She's taken the breakup pretty hard, even though the other guy is a loser who she had hardly even seen when they were together. I'm tempted to talk to her...on the phone, online, email, whatever...just small talk, maybe to eventually rekindle what we used to have. I know there's a good chance it's hopeless, but what should I do? Should I talk to her, or wait for her to come to me (she broke up with me after all)?
JustinWolf Posted January 22, 2008 Posted January 22, 2008 Wait for her to come to you. Take it slow. Don't talk about the past, don't bring up old memories, you are starting something new. Take it easy, man. Let her come.
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