aaaaaiiiiieeeee Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 Hi, All of my previous posts were in the Divorce/Break up forums. Any ways it's been a year, I'm doing way better. I've been dating for a little while, but recently I met this great very attractive girl. We were flirting like crazy and I thought wow she likes. So I ask her to dinner and she immediately says yes and that she's free during the evenings during the week (I asked her on a Sat evening)! Great right? She gives me her number and so I called her that Monday morning. I see if she wants to have dinner that evening, suggest a place, and she says 'that sounds good I like that place, I'm having breakfast w/ my brother, will you be around? Let me call you back in 30 mins - 1 hr.' And I never heard from her again. I'm 31 she's 26, but I thought this kind of thing only happens in high school. Perhaps there are other circumstances of which I was never aware, but if she didn't want to go out with me then why give me her number? She could have just invented a fake BF. Or if she changed her mind later just say so when I called that morning, or just call me back and say I changed my mind. Should I just let it go? I suppose so...it sucks it seems like it only happens to the ones I really like
EYECANDY000 Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 Agreed. she should have called and let you know she has changed her mind. But she probaly didn't exactly know how to tell you she changed her mind. I wouldn't give up on her so quick. Most times women like to talk to someone on the phone first to sort of get a feel for them. See if she responds back within the next day or so. If you feel like you want an answer before you completely write her off, send her a text saying you hope everything is ok.. you was looking forward to dinner or speaking with her that day.
compassion42 Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 I don't think there is anything wrong with calling her back-it really did sound like she wanted to get together with you and it's worth another call.
Author aaaaaiiiiieeeee Posted January 21, 2008 Author Posted January 21, 2008 I did call her back, just got her voice mail. Left her a message making sure everything is ok. I suppose what I want is to know one way or the other, but sometimes that's just not possible.
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