Blue Eyed Brain Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 "I'd like to find a nice girl but I'm open to any fun that may come my way as well" Stay away from these types of guys. Also, the ones that are looking for woman from age 18-50! If they have so little requirements, than why would you want to date them.... Desperation is the worlds worst cologne!
Blue Eyed Brain Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 You don't think it's possible for someone to be ok with both? That's kind of my situation. Ultimately I want to find someone I really like but I'm open to casual dating for fun in the meantime. Besides, you're avoiding the question. I want to know how a guy could phrase it so that you wouldn't be offended. The guy should be honest. "I'm looking for a long term relationship, but understand that it may take searching people to find it." No guarantees but I am willing to try. Something better than that, but generally that's how it should read. Also, if you put interested in women age 20 -40. No respectful woman will reply. Narrow your standards so she can see if you are worth the effort.
Phateless Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 There is no way that I would find that attractive no matter how it was worded thats just me. This is the part you never wrote before. Actually you said earlier that it was the wording that offended you, that's the only reason I was pushing that issue. Sorry for the confusion. So you don't date casually at all? It's either all or nothing? You're holding out for the real deal? Or would you date someone casually in the meantime if it worked out that way?
Phateless Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 The guy should be honest. "I'm looking for a long term relationship, but understand that it may take searching people to find it." No guarantees but I am willing to try. Something better than that, but generally that's how it should read. Also, if you put interested in women age 20 -40. No respectful woman will reply. Narrow your standards so she can see if you are worth the effort. lol yeah. It's been a while since I actually used a dating site but I don't think that was me. I have a profile up on a Jewish dating site but I never check it anyway.
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