annie77 Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 Just wondering, is it too late to do the NC thing to see if there's any chance my ex will come back? I heard all about the whole "give him time to miss you" rule and haven't done that yet in the whole 16 months we've been broken up. We were together 7 years but he does not want to commit, yet he still loves spending time with me and going on dates as if we never broke up. I've heard you do this post break up, but if I apply it now (16 months post break up), could it still work, or should I assume there's never a chance for us?
screwedup55 Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 I don't like the NC rule, but if you want to try it I say go for it. You might want to try a little vacation during a time of normal contact with him and don't contact him while you are on vacation. Or you can try couples counseling. I don't think you should ever give up hope. You just need to be realistic about it. I hope my ex and I get back together. Is it going to happen? Probably not.
Leia Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 No contact means no contact. It's for you to heal not to get your ex back.
Author annie77 Posted January 21, 2008 Author Posted January 21, 2008 Well I just found out he's had a gf all this time so forget it. I'm done.
Leia Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 O.U.C.H! Don't worry... There are plenty of other guys out there!
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