Happy Birthday and such

[jdeedee]

Happy birthday to you.

Happy birthday to you.

Happy birthday dear Ex.

Happy birthday to you.... and many more!

 

I took the advice of some on the forums and sang her a little happy birthday song last night before bed. Today is going to be hard but I'll make it through.

 

My entire self longs just to spend the day with her on her birthday. I guess it's true, breakups are much harder on birthdays and holidays. Those special moments in our lives that we just want to share with others.

 

I'm so glad I sent her a birthday card on Weds. I know deep in my heart that she appreciated it, my little noggin hurts thinking she might have seen the return address and tossed it in the trash. I hope not, we weren't ever on hateful terms but having not heard a single word from her in over a month... it's scary.

 

I'm adjusting to life as it comes but this breakup is so different from my past ones it's like an entirely brand new experience. All my serious relationships in the past I stayed friends with my exes. This is, of course, because they broke up with me and I was trying to get back together.

 

This time I am the one who ended it and she doesn't want to have a thing to do with me. Good for her! (I know). I don't think she has any resentment to me she is just healing and so am I.

 

I love you ex. Have the happiest of birthdays, you deserve it.

[AriaIncognito]

Hey, much better you say it HERE than contact the ex with it, ya know.

[serendip]

Hey, much better you say it HERE than contact the ex with it, ya know.

 

 

he did contact her according to his post

 

if it makes him feel better then do it i guess

 

my ex's b-day is next week....I don't think I will contact her

[jdeedee]

I sent her a card, contact but nothing major.

[jdeedee]

I miss her

[s_n_d]

Awww

We all miss the exs. And birthdays especially and holidays are so hard.

But you will get through it. And itll be ok.