papavio Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 I had this horrible feeling this past 2 weeks something was wrong with my gf.. And then a few days ago i accidentally stumbled across something I didnt want to see.. She left msn messanger on on the computer and she had typed a message to one of her friends saying "ive got man trubles right now, i really like my bf but i still have feelings for *person* " The problem is i cant say anything to her about it because she'll think ive been stalking her basically, but ive tried to force it out of her yesterday but she just said she was feeling sick and made up some lies to avoid telling me and throw me off track. I dont know what to do, My heart broke when i read that.... What am i supposed to do now? I am deeply in love with her and so sad right now...
makemyblackrosesred Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Aw that's horrible:( Wow I know I personally would confront her. Hands down. I don't think you should care wheither or not she thinks you "betrade" her because you're being honest. Tell her the truth, that it was a complete accident. She probabaly would remember her leaving the MSN MESSANGER open for sure and just say "Hey, I wasn't prying but when I went to use the computer your messanger was open and a convo was there right in front of me." Say to her that you love her and trust her, however, you just want an explantion on why she would write that. Even if she gets mad, try to be as calm and un-aggressive as possible. Hope that helps!
Cobra_X30 Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 She is trying to make you compete. Don't play that game! Make sure she knows that playing the field is not acceptable. So, you don't have to explain to her how you know anything. Just tell her that she is acting wierd... you think it has something to do with another guy, and that makes you think she isnt good enough for you. If she lies... just tell her that you both know she is lieing. You may not realize this now... but if you reject her... chances are her feelings for you are going to go from rock bottom to sky high.
compassion42 Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 I think it's ok for you to talk to her. You don't even have to refer to seeing her MSN. Just let her know that you sense something isn't right between the two of you. Good Luck, I hope you can work things out with her.
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