PerfectXPretty Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 (edited) So i've been with this guy for 3 years off and on & he hasnt been very nice to me, told me he's needed space lately which i had given him.. & then we had gone to the flyers game, had a great night & then he decides to text me the next day basically saying that he wanted to kiss me and see if he had any feelings for me still , but yet the night before after the game he had told me that he missed me and everything reminded him of me ... and i had asked him if he loved me in texts the next day and he said yes.. but yet he's still being an A** to me & all of that.. after the texting i had sent him an email stating what had gone wrong and how it could be fixed if he really wanted to work hard at it... i told him that him playing on wow all the time while i was there was neglect & i told him i was writing it because i cared and loved him , we had made plans for today to hang out & of course he fell through again, i'm starting to think he likes someone else, how do i just get the courage to leave him? when iw as texting him this is what was said [FONT=Garamond][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]i said " so we still on for today.. still gotta give you the antivirus", and he goes "playin hockey right now. stacy and bobby are coming over hopefully so i'll let you know' so i said 'okay' he goes 'when i get home that is' .. i said " so we are still on good" & ' wont be done here til three so it works out, he goes " like i said i will call you and let you know" and i said.. "well dont leave me hanging" .. he goes " forget about today. i'm not in the mood for you." .. i said "exucse me" he said " you heard me. you text me over and over. you are so obsessive" i said " no its more like i can make other plans so i need to know" & then i said " your mean" .. he said " omg no way. Your just as mean as i am so hush" and i didnt bother answering.. & its like i tell him that a relationship works both ways & i dont care what his friends say because if their agreeiing with himi he's probably not telling them everything & making me look wrong because he always makes me look wrong, the only thing i coudl be wrong for is putting up with it for so long.. how do i just let this go... we're 'in a relatinship' and havent 'officially' broken up .. all he's been saying is he needs space & then he's mean to me.. I dont want to go over there in tears to do it, i dont want to do it over the phone/text messages, i dont want to be his 'rebound' if he's hoping to be with someone else' i don know how to explain this anymore or even try to be nice to him anymore when he makes me look wrong when i'm not.. i'm the giver he's the taker.. help me! Edited January 19, 2008 by PerfectXPretty had something else to add
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