Freddy Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Umm this guys a piece of crap. She just got a text.
Freddy Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 She got a text. It said this is Ryan's girlfriend and get over it. The problem is that she doesn't believe this to be true. SND go NC. Your Friend
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Freddy are you going NC with your ex at the moment? x
Freddy Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 No, she's making it difficult with me. We are having lunch tomorrow so I'm going to have to talk to her about it. She already knows what I want but she still wants to be a part of my life without the commitment. I don't know what I'm going to do.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 See this is what I am worried about Freddy with my ex. Last night on the phone in his words he said " I do not, want to not talk to you". So I replied, " Well I think its best I leave you alone". He replied. " I dont want that". It is so difficult, he broke up with me. He does not know whether he will want to get back with me in the future, but still tells me he loves me. Its an awful feeling. I am going to have to ignore him when he texts me next. I am so not looking forward to it at all.
Freddy Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Glamour: I wish I would of went straight NC after we broke up and I think I would have really gotten her back by now. You are doing the right thing, don't let him get his way, otherwise you will be here like my 8 months later and still not getting the ex back. It will be hard but it might be well worth it.
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Yep its true..It texted me..Or someone(One of his friends)... The text says, " Ryan is fine. This is his girlfriend. Get over him already." And ofcourse its ME and i HAD to reply so i replied saying, " Oh Hii =]] And Im over him..Why wouldnt I be. Just checking how hes doing..Its a free country" Im in more pain but atleast now i know if there IS infact another girl i can move on FINALLY.. if it isnt, well then i know how much of a jerk his friends and him are for sending it..
Ariadne Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 The title of this thread says it all.. I woke up this morning feeling extremely happy that I made it this far(I have never been able to do Nc more than three days until now). About an hour ago, I texted him saying hi and asking if he wanted to see eachother sometime in the coming week... I know, I know..I shouldnt have. =[ But the damage is done and I cant take it back now. F***. What do I do now...Now its come to the point where I cant stop tearing up..Even at the very moment I just want to talk to him and the thought of him is haunting me... "Somebody wake me from this nightmare..."- Three days grace-Animal I have become. NC is stupid anyway. Just talk to him while you can, and resolve your issues. Don't feel bad for contacting him, it's normal to want to see him.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Oh my god, that message was awful. I would awful if I had a text like that from my ex. I think it could have been a friend, if it was a girl. Good Luck to her! What makes her think, he wouldnt do the same to her. You definately need to do NC. I have just bought Rhonda Findling book on amazon. Dont Call that Man its called. Maybe you should get it too. xxx
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 NC is stupid anyway. Just talk to him while you can, and resolve your issues. Don't feel bad for contacting him, it's normal to want to see him. NC is not stupid, it has helped many a person heal. Also, how can she resolve her issues with a man who clearly doesnt want to resolve issues! That has much use as banging your head into a wall. Have you not read this thread?
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Glamour: I wish I would of went straight NC after we broke up and I think I would have really gotten her back by now. You are doing the right thing, don't let him get his way, otherwise you will be here like my 8 months later and still not getting the ex back. It will be hard but it might be well worth it. Freddy are you going to go for lunch with her? Do you think its a good idea. I just think you should go cold turkey like me. x
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Freddy always says hes going to go NC.but never does.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 I have said I am going to do it loads of time as well but its going to have to be, because LC does not seem to be working at all.
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Yeah LC is a pain. You have to control how much you talk to the ex. I think the best thing is NC.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 I know and if they havent contacted you for a while, your like " Oh my god they really dont love me" and the whole crappy cycle starts again. lol. Its a nightmare.
Freddy Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 We went to dinner last Thursday and had a great time. Yah I'll probably go have lunch too. I keep saying I will go NC but it has yet to happen cause we keep breaking it.
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Oh my god, that message was awful. I would awful if I had a text like that from my ex. I think it could have been a friend, if it was a girl. Good Luck to her! What makes her think, he wouldnt do the same to her. You definately need to do NC. I have just bought Rhonda Findling book on amazon. Dont Call that Man its called. Maybe you should get it too. xxx Yeah I know. It ruined my day..But I needed that.. I now know that I can never be with him unless HE initiated it and even BEGGED.yes.BEGGED. Im going to try to move on.
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 I know and if they havent contacted you for a while, your like " Oh my god they really dont love me" and the whole crappy cycle starts again. lol. Its a nightmare. Exactly! Its a NIGHTMARE.
Ariadne Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Hey, Yeah LC is a pain. You have to control how much you talk to the ex. I think the best thing is NC. At least you didn't get the email I got: It's his fiancee (of one day), get over him, and by the way, I asked him not to talk to you ever again. (something like that, but worse) Now, that sucks, at least you can talk to him.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Ok, how was your email much different to the text snd recieved. Is this a wind up?
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Yeah I know. It ruined my day..But I needed that.. I now know that I can never be with him unless HE initiated it and even BEGGED.yes.BEGGED. Im going to try to move on. Sorry didnt see this message, I am glad to hear it, I will be here for you x
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Hey, Yeah LC is a pain. You have to control how much you talk to the ex. I think the best thing is NC. At least you didn't get the email I got: It's his fiancee (of one day), get over him, and by the way, I asked him not to talk to you ever again. (something like that, but worse) Now, that sucks, at least you can talk to him. Well Im guessing the dont ever talk to him again part is understood when you get a text like that... But I really have a strong feeling that its his dumbass friends just f****** around.
GlamourBabe Posted January 20, 2008 Posted January 20, 2008 Well Im guessing the dont ever talk to him again part is understood when you get a text like that... But I really have a strong feeling that its his dumbass friends just f****** around. What an ass he is.
Author s_n_d Posted January 20, 2008 Author Posted January 20, 2008 Yeah hes an ass. I hate that I love him.
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