mopar crazy Posted January 23, 2008 Posted January 23, 2008 Oh, there's no hope for my marriage. When you drop your wallet in a river of molten lava, ya just gotta let it go. My wife will not address the issues that make her a cheater, so I must end it. The hope is for the future. With some not yet met lady that may or may not be out there somewhere. I thought the same thing while going through my D. Well, not a lady, a man, lol. Some times it was the only thought that kept me positive about the whole mess. However, my H did admit to why he had the A, etc. It was out of pure selfishness, the OW paid more attention to him, he was getting enough sex from me. That one I could not understand, once or twice a week wasn't enough? Sure there was times where it was almost four weeks but that was rare, after I had our children or it was only b/c of him being a total prick and I didn't want him to even look at me let alone touch me. I was disgusted how he was when he was drunk and he was drunk almost every night. I did not live in a sexless M. Anyhow, so I know that feeling. You will find someone who will treat you w/ the love and respect you deserve. To the OP, I agree, MC and IC is a must. I hope you find the path you need to take to make you happy and your H, whether it's together or not.
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