anotherother24 Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 How do you "forget" about someone?? People say to get over it but how exactly do you do that? lol Even if I'm doing something, I'm half wishing he would call me. Do people just stop caring about someone? it's like he doesn't care at all. I don't know if that's possible, not for me though. He says he loves me but we can't be together right now(if ever, he's married) but it feels like he doesn't care at all. I know he has other issues but it feels like everything he said was a lie. In my heart, I know it wasn't but it hurts that way because things didn't work out. I guess it doesn't REALLY matter wether it was true or not because in the end, we aren't together and we possibly never will be again. I'm just having a hard time accepting that because it's not what I wanted. I didn't want him to leave his kids/family, because I know that's not right either and I'd feel bad but I didn't want him to leave me either. I guess in the end, someone had to "lose". In a way, I know it was better if I lost instead of his children...but it just sucks. I don't know how to "move on" ....I never planned to move on. It just kind of happened that I needed to do it. I don't know HOW you just do that though. We never fought, he never treated me bad. So it's not like we don't love each other exactly, it's just the situation. I don't think I ever want to love anyone again lol if it hurts this much. It's like once I get over this, I keep telling myself I'm done lol of course...I hope it's not that way but wow...what a mess. This guy has made me feel and even act a bit crazy lol and for what??
BrianG Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 There is noo manual to this kind of thing. Each person involved in a break-up has to take their own journey in coming to terms with something like this. We are all different people and there is no instruction manual that says if you do this and that you, you will get over it. The main advice I have learned from this site is NC, keep busy (doing something anything), work on yourself so you have a better outcome the next time around, and most important is time. The more distance (not literally) and time between you will one day heal your wounds. Not even mentioning that this guy is married. There is plent of people that deserve your heart that are not married.
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