sicks2 Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 i find myself hovering over my phone waiting for the one girl i truly like to call when sometime it takes her hours to call me even though i might be mad because I've been waiting for her to call when i hear her voice everything doesn't matter anymore, shes the only thing intercourse is the last thing on my mind now, all i can think about is to be with her and just to hold her is my craving affection going to wear off or am i destined to be used abused cheated on and so on so forth. . . and if anyone can help me it will be very much appreciated
Lee725 Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 no-one can say that the craving will wear off or that you are destined to be abused or chested on, but if you go into it with those thoughts in mind it is likely that you will find reasons for that to happen. Craving someones affection is just a sign that you are into them, you want to be around them & that is a good thing. The fact that she does not call you as quickly as you would like is not an indication that she is not into you - people do get caught up in their own lives & have things to do, so even if she is not calling she might be thinking of you. it seems that you may be a little insecure & needy. (based on what you have written). Building your self confidence and having a little faith in the people around you will go a long way. Even if you have been cheated on before does not mean that it is destined to happen again - this dating/relationship you are having will be what you make of it. Good luck.
Green Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 no-one can say that the craving will wear off or that you are destined to be abused or chested on, but if you go into it with those thoughts in mind it is likely that you will find reasons for that to happen. Craving someones affection is just a sign that you are into them, you want to be around them & that is a good thing. The fact that she does not call you as quickly as you would like is not an indication that she is not into you - people do get caught up in their own lives & have things to do, so even if she is not calling she might be thinking of you. it seems that you may be a little insecure & needy. (based on what you have written). Building your self confidence and having a little faith in the people around you will go a long way. Even if you have been cheated on before does not mean that it is destined to happen again - this dating/relationship you are having will be what you make of it. Good luck. This basicaly said what I wanted to in a kinder sort of way
norajane Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 No, you're not destined to fail, provided that your love interests are people with whom you are compatible, who treats you with respect, and your interest isn't just based on superficial things. How well do you know her? Why do you like her? Is she genuine, or do her words and actions not match up?
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