Gunny376 Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 (edited) Man! Just let her go! I'm speaking from experience! Me? I'm fifty! I'm retired out of tha' "Corps" I wasted so many years and so much time over women. Such a freaking waste of time, effort, energy, and money. Its like ITS, they tell you you've got to do this and that, you've got to have this and that ~ and then when your Happy-@ss gets in-country you find half of it isn't nothing but BS! Then the Gunny gives you the real "scoop" And tell you like it is! I went through the "Big D" back when I was in the Corps. I was 33. What did I do? Went and got my Happy @ss in another relationship! Just had to have a relationship, just had to have a significant other? Truth is? Everything I needed to know? I learned in Kindergarden, and what I didn't know ~ the Corps taught me! You want to be happy? The truth of the matter is? Most people are about as happy as they make their minds up to be! My happiness? I'm the one that determines that! And, that's a fact Jack! You can bet your sweet @ss my happineness doesn't hinge upon some woman! As far as the Ex-hex goes! She can go pound sand in her @ss in Panama City, Fl! Or Myrtle Beach for all I care! You want to be happy? That's YOUR job there Slick! Just that plain just that simple! JHC! You made it through Marine Bootcamp! You made it through four years enslistment in the Marines! You've started your own business! What is your major malfunction! Enough already! Forget this dizzy broad! Quit being so damned selfish! She had her chance! Give a "DECENT" woman a chance and a opportunity ~ ALREADY! There's a lot of good and decent women out there ~ GO out and find yourself one! The "ex-hex" had her chace! She "blew it"! Her own mother knows it! Her family knows it! Quit beating yourself up! Move on! SEMPERFI! CARRY ON! CARRY OUT THE PLAIN OF THE DAY! Edited January 19, 2008 by Gunny376
Author Trecherized Posted January 19, 2008 Author Posted January 19, 2008 You're right Gunny, I actually was just at the place where she was staying at because I woke up and had this feeling that she wasn't there. My gut feeling was right. She probably had a quick fix before going out of town. My chest feels like a ton of bricks had fell on it. I'm going to start boxing up her stuff tomorrow and let her know that they need to get picked up or they're getting burned or thrown away. I can't stand this feeling. I wish it was easier said than done but I do want to move on. I do feel like I need a fresh start. I just need to get over this I guess. I wish there was an issued solution to my problem. Kind of like motrin and water. Thanks again. Aye Gunny! Semper Fi!
Gunny376 Posted January 19, 2008 Posted January 19, 2008 As far as the hurt and the pain? It never completely goes away? Its kind of like dragging a dead horse around with you everywhere you go? You get use to it, you learn to deal with it, you learn to live with it. But, it will get a Hell of a lot easier the very second you make your mind up to the point "You know what? I'm done with this!" And you decide to quit dragging a dead horse around with you everywhere you go! Its just this plain and simple? Either she's part of the solution and part of the answers ~ or she's part of the problems and the questions. "Find herself?" yada~yada and whatever else is just in-direct speech for "I think I want to go and scrogg somonelse?" And more often than not? It has nothing to do with you ~ it has to do with the cheater's own insecurties. Oh sure ~ they'll project all kinds of negative crap on you? Paint the canvas as though it was your fault? They'll even re-write the history of the relationship? But when you get to the bottom of it? Its all selfish and self-centered behavior on their part. Its all about "Me, me, me? The reason you find yourself crawling out from under the bus the ex-hex threw you under is because you were executing Plan A in and with your life, and the ex-hex out of no where threw you under the bus!? Out you come crawling? Wondering if anyone got the number of the bus that just ran over you? You sound as though aside from the ex-hex, you've got a purpose and a mission statement for your life ~ aka ~ you've got your act together? There are plenty of women who would very much appreciate what you've got to offer. Women who don't drink, do drugs, cheat, run around, be standing in your yard in your boots kicking your dog around! What one woman would abuse? Another certainly could use! Enough with the midnight recon patrols ~ if she's not at the house in your bed? Then she's of no use to you! What was? WAS! What is? IS! And What will be? WILL BE! Its just that plain and simple! A woman walks out on me? That's it! I'm done! There's no coming back! Ever! I'm a man! I've got my pride! I don't need some woman hurting me inside! The fact of the matter is? If a woman truly loves you? I mean really loves you? There's no way any other man or thing on Earth that could come between the two of you? She'd sleep out in the cold winter rain and snow ~ if that's the way you said it had to be! She'd turn her back on her own Mother to be with you! The "issued" solution is you get on with your life ~ don't dwell on it, move on! Get busy living your life ~ to its top! You don't have the time, energy, money to invest in someone that has doubts about being with you? In for a penny ~ in for a pound! To the hilt of the sword! Good times! Bad times! Hard times! When you were in Iraq ~ you didn't just sit around and let Ahab the Arab take pop-shots at you, trying to take your head off your shoulders? You got busy getting busy and doing something about it! Same "sit-rep" Your the one that's holding the keys to the chains that bind you?! Not her!
2cents Posted January 21, 2008 Posted January 21, 2008 It is always scary going from the familiar to the unknown. The reason alot of people that should part don't in my opinion. Do the list thing. Make a list of the things that are good and bad. Compare them. Just a guess but i'll bet the bad will be longer with this one. You were 15 come on I can't even remember who I was with at 15 and it was the first time I got laid. You are going to meet someone that will appreciate you with all your flaws and laugh when you look back on how you felt about this one. Life is too short if you live to be old and much shorter for many others. Cut the line and re-bait. Even if you don't hook a keeper right away the worst day of fishing beats the best day of work. This one sounds alot like work. Also your military time is just a chapter in your life not the book.
Author Trecherized Posted January 21, 2008 Author Posted January 21, 2008 I would like to thank everyone for the support and guidance. I know that none of you have even met me or know me, yet you still took the time and effort to lend a helping hand. Thank you all.
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