TKD_ben Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 hey there, me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year now, and I'm still totally in love with her, we both get on great. but when it comes to sex we have put on hold till we both feel ready. at this point i should let you know i am still a virgin and she has had bad sexual experience of which i will not disclose. Anyway, we go out one night get very drunk and end up in bed together, my problem is no matter how hard i tried i could not get it up to save my life I'm no sure if this was just pressure to perform with nerves or if alcohol can effect performance? but in the end we just spent the night together with no sex which was great. then in the morning was no problem for performance but could not do it because of staying round friends and they was up and about.. but since then we have decide to give it another go very soon. has anyone else ever had this problem with performance in bed? oh and i not only deeply care and love her she has the hottest body i have ever seen. cheers, TKD_Ben
EYECANDY000 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 If you are still a virgin then I would think that nerves had a lot to do with it. Have you guys tried four play? Have she gotten you reaaly aroused? I guess since Im not a guy I cant answer the question to your satisfication, but maybe the guys can.
Geishawhelk Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Alcohol definitely has a very big effect on perforamnce.... it suppresses erectile function... coupled with the fact that you probably both realised you were very drunk, and that it really wasn't the ideal time to be trying to have sex for the very first time, and forepaly is wonderful, but not when you're seeing double.... Relax. Don't even 'plan'. Just be led by (sober) emotions and circumstances. Let nice things happen when they're meant to... PS: You are over 16, right...??
Author TKD_ben Posted January 17, 2008 Author Posted January 17, 2008 (edited) phew cheers guys and gals, it been a problem in my mind, that i cant stop thinking about. but sober.. jeez i got nervous enough drunk let alone sober.. cheers for all the advice. didn't see the p.s. yes I'm 19. Edited January 17, 2008 by TKD_ben
EYECANDY000 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Mentally, maybe your not ready to lose your virginity! hmmmmmmmm
spookie Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 How old are you? I think it's great that you guys talked about it and decided you'd try again but with no pressure to do it right then. Wait for the right moment, don't overthink it. Use protection!
Author TKD_ben Posted January 17, 2008 Author Posted January 17, 2008 i am 19, spooky and yeah protection first hehe, well i am deffinatly up for losing it, but only to her. and thank you all.
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