Geishawhelk Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 cuddling is maybe sitting on the sofa, with your arms around one another, or a head on your lap watching tv, or sitting against the armrest, whilst the other leans on you.... "Cuddling" is.... (you want me to draw you a diagram....?)
Author sicks2 Posted January 17, 2008 Author Posted January 17, 2008 how far does cuddling go before it turns into something else?
bozwa Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Just spending time together but whilst doing that you are hugging or holding hands or have your legs intertwined or laying side by side on the couch while you watch TV or your arms interwined or resting your head on their shoulder or vice versa or head in lap or playing with hair, I could go on and on and on....
bozwa Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 how far does cuddling go before it turns into something else? Cuddling could be a form of it, but generally cuddling isn't foreplay or making out. It doesn't have to lead anywhere. Why do you ask?
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Being close, essentially. And it crosses the line when the touching gets explicit.
Author sicks2 Posted January 17, 2008 Author Posted January 17, 2008 this girl im talking to always says she wants to cuddle but i never see her because when we have time to see each other her parents arent home so i cant come over (im 17 btw) and i was curious of how far cuddling is classified
Saxis Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 how far does cuddling go before it turns into something else? I'd say if the stroking and petting starts and it leads to kissing, you've entered the realm of foreplay. But then you could probably consider cuddling part of the foreplay, too. I also don't understand how this isn't obvious?
Geishawhelk Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 this girl im talking to always says she wants to cuddle but i never see her because when we have time to see each other her parents arent home so i cant come over (im 17 btw) and i was curious of how far cuddling is classified Being the middle-aged prude that I am, I just find it a bit... I don't know.... sad.... that a 17-year old male is asking when does cuddling become foreplay...? Pardon me, but... what's the hurry? isn't it nice to focus on enjoying each other's company, getting to know one another and not worry about do's and don'ts, what ifs, maybes. whys and wherefores.... Sex is so complicating. Why not do things when they become natural - or come naturally? there are no rules and regulations, no expectations, no performances. It should be a demonstration of affection. And something to relaly enjoy because you are so keen on each other that you can't keep your hands off one another. it's not all about signals, going from this to that.... relax. speak to her. is she ready for sex between you both? have you already made love before? if not, just be led by the situation. Sorry, but... I just think it would be nice to not make sex 'the thing'.... but that's just me. I waited nearly 9 months before 'diving in'.... But then again, I am pushing 51.....
Jilly Bean Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 God, I LOVE cuddling! I am SO into being the little spoon. I think cuddling can take a few forms. There is the cuddling you do on the couch fully clothed while watching TV, and then it develops into sex. Then, there is also the post-coital cuddling that you do before you fall asleep. Regardless, I am a total sucker for cuddling. But to you - if this girl says she wants to cuddle, it could be teenage speak for foreplay, or it could mean that she just wants to be close to you physically, without being sexual.
shadowplay Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 God, I LOVE cuddling! I am SO into being the little spoon. I think cuddling can take a few forms. There is the cuddling you do on the couch fully clothed while watching TV, and then it develops into sex. Then, there is also the post-coital cuddling that you do before you fall asleep. My favorite.
Geishawhelk Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 if this girl says she wants to cuddle, it could be teenage speak for foreplay, or it could mean that she just wants to be close to you physically, without being sexual. Oh yes, absolutely great - if he was trying to work out any signals, this will absolutely clear it all up for him completely!! :laugh:
blind_otter Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 OH wow I love to cuddle. Sometimes my SO and I will run back to the bedroom and snuggle under the covers for a half hour or more, during the day, whenever.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 God, I LOVE cuddling! I am SO into being the little spoon. I think cuddling can take a few forms. There is the cuddling you do on the couch fully clothed while watching TV, and then it develops into sex. Then, there is also the post-coital cuddling that you do before you fall asleep. Regardless, I am a total sucker for cuddling. But to you - if this girl says she wants to cuddle, it could be teenage speak for foreplay, or it could mean that she just wants to be close to you physically, without being sexual. I miss all that stuff, it's my fav affection. Being so petite I always get to be the little spoon. Sigh. Good stuff that's for sure. *Hugs the stuffed dog*
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 OH wow I love to cuddle. Sometimes my SO and I will run back to the bedroom and snuggle under the covers for a half hour or more, during the day, whenever. Where can I sign up for one of those?
Pyro Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Where can I sign up for one of those? Hang in there young jedi. Hopefully not much longer before the D is official. Plenty of eligible bachelors out there who love to cuddle. Cuddling is awesome.
EYECANDY000 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Cuddeling is two hot bodies pressed together !!! ahhhhhhhhh.. i like to spoon too!! thats another form of cuddeling
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Cuddeling is two hot bodies pressed together !!! ahhhhhhhhh.. i like to spoon too!! thats another form of cuddeling Such a tasty idea.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Hang in there young jedi. Hopefully not much longer before the D is official. Plenty of eligible bachelors out there who love to cuddle. Cuddling is awesome. Thank you Master Yoda, and cuddling is awesome indeed.
Pyro Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Thank you Master Yoda, and cuddling is awesome indeed. Once your jedi training is complete, then and only then will you be able to cuddle. Geez I sound like such a dork.:laugh:
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Geez I sound like such a dork.:laugh: I'm the queen, welcome to my world:cool:
Pyro Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 I'm the queen, welcome to my world:cool: Glad to be here. Now where can I find some spiders? I'm hungry. J/K
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Glad to be here. Now where can I find some spiders? I'm hungry. J/K Ok, time for a beating on the be-hind.
Pyro Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Ok, time for a beating on the be-hind. You're the queen.
ElvenPriestess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 You're the queen. SO glad we agree. "And now, back to the cuddling folks":bunny:
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