thekid55 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Ex-Gf and I were together for about 2 years in high school. great relationship, very loving, sexual. I'm 18 and she's 16. I left home for college in Sept. She is still in HS. She broke up wit me in late Oct becuz "she just wanted to experience HS". We had a few visits wit each other before that I begged, pleaded for a month wit her and she didn't budge. She has been firm on the stance that she doesn't want to get back together, she has even been sort of mean to me. We both have started dating new people. She has a new bf who is a pothead, emo kid who is not her type. She likes him because he's sponteanous. They have had sex and been togehter for a month. She is apparently happy with him, but he's not a candidate for something long term. She said Happy Bday to me on my bday last month. She has cancelled 2 meetings we were supposed to have during my breaks cuz she wasn't ready to see me yet. I do feel like I've been putting too much pressure on her with everything. I have had periods of NC, but she always contacts me when she feels like she's losing me. games. I have been NC for bout 1.5 weeks. I told her to just leave me a lone the last time she contacted me. I love this girl, alot. I want to get back together. Think it's possible in da summer, or earlier even?
Lee725 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 You have said in your post that you have both started dating new people. Why are you dating someone when you are still pining for your EX?, That's rather unfair on the new girl in your life. In this situation it may be better to move on and let her go. You can not force someone to come back to you. If she is going to come back it needs to be in her own time but you should not wait for her. She is young as are you, therefore as much as it may hurt you, her desire to experience HS and other people may be exactly what she needs right now. Good luck.
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