younglove88 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 (edited) ok so i have this really confussing situation going on. it all started in dec of 2006 when i was asked out by a guy that i had known for awhile. we started dating and things were awesome between us and really thought it was the real deal for the both of us. well his brother came home on leave from iraq in january. well be and his brother had a small past that we wanted to clear up one nite so we began to text and talk things out. well my boyfriend the next day mentioned something to my mother about it and it caused a fight and i ended up breaking up with him which was the worst mistake in the world. he said that he was sorry it was just that his brother usually likes to try and take his girlfriends. well about 8 months went by and we started to hang out alot again and got to talking about getting back together but he was going to leave it up to me cause he still loved me alot. well finally on dec 8th, 2007 i give our relationship a second chance and things were so awesome. just they way he held me and the little soft kisses told me that he loved me. well about 1 month into the relationship just about the samething happened as last time only this time the tables were turned. i had got a text from him off his brother's phone telling me to still come on over that night but then about 20 mins later i got another from him off of the town tramp's(excuse my words) phone telling me that i couldnt come over cause someone had been sick. well i got really upset as i do not trust this girl with my man due to problems i had had with her in the past. well kept opening my mouth and told my bf that i was jealous of the girl and it wasnt him that i didnt trust but her(also be known that she wants to get with my bf) well he got to a breaking point and broke up with me and seems i cant say anything to him to change it. we talked the next day after and he stood there and told me that he loves me and would do anything for me but thought it best for us just to be friends for now and maybe something will change in the future and we will get back together. i just dont understand how a man can tell you that he loves you more than anything but yet not be with you. can anyone help me with this and maybe give me some advise on how to get him back? thanks in advance younglove88 Edited January 17, 2008 by younglove88
Jasmine777 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 Okay take it from one that knows, stay away from him! You can read my posting on how can a guy you love walk away so easily because I am going through a similar situation. I was in an almost six year relationship with a guy whom let other women get in the way from time and time again. He also really loved me a lot but he showed some red flags to me that he was not a good guy to be involved with. He just broke up with me, he is seeing someone now and he calls me all the time to say how much he loves me and how there still could be a future with him. He says you never know what the future may hold. I hope you will be the one. If he meant all of this he would not be talking and hanging out with someone else. He is a player and it sounds like the guy you like could be too. If you try and win him back and he comes back which he probably will, you will have problems throughout your entire relationship and you may be dumped in the end because guys like that don't change. So if I were you I would move on to someone who will truely love you and not invovle other girls into your relationship. Bottom line, if he cared you both would still be together!
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