Hi Everyone, I'm in a bit trouble, your thoughts appreciated.

[blind_otter]

If all four of you adults are already on board with open relationships, then why can’t all four of you sit down (as mutually consenting adults) and discuss the pregnancy together?

 

Better to do a round table and get the input off all four potential parents to better decide what is best for you, the baby, and everyone involved. I hardly think at this point, there’s anything left to feel bashful or uncomfortable about. I understand that the other wife may be disappointed that certain precautions weren’t followed through with, but if she was already aware and had given her husband permission to foster intimate relationships outside of their immediate marriage ... then she can hardly be all that surprised. Right?

 

I agree with Enigma...everyone should be able to talk about this, because it affects everyone -- that's the price you pay when you live this kind of lifestyle.

[simplegirl]

GB- I just tried to send you a PM but apparently you do not have that enabled. I don't want to post everything in "public" that I had ready for the PM so let me know if you enable it.

 

I will tell you that yes, I am still in the R with my MM.

[green_bean]

Simplegirl...um I'm probably just being really blind but I can't see how to enable it. Do I need to have a premium membership to get PM's?

Edited January 19, 2008 by green_bean
technical diff

[green_bean]

OK, I figured it out, you have to be an established member or a premium member. I put down the whooping $2 so I should be able to get PM"s now. Thanks SG.

[Computers]

I will tell you that yes, I am still in the R with my MM.

A relationship? You mean an adulterous affair! Edited January 19, 2008 by Computers

[marlena]

Green Bean,

 

Your husband sounds like a very patient and understanding man. He also seems to be totally in love with you so much so that he accepts your sexual releaionships with other men and now he is willing to be afather to someone else's child.

 

I assume you can not have children with your live-in partner. Do you want to have children? If you do and your husband is willing to be a father to that child, then, I would keep the baby and not tell MM a thing. Unless, of course, you and MM want to leave your respective partners and be together, which, from what I gather, is not what you want.

 

Another thing you need to deal with is MM's desire that you leave your partner. If this is out of the question, then, you should perhaps considerending your relationship with him. Obviously, he has fallen for you and as so his demands are inceasing.

 

So, there you have it. It is up to you to do what you feel is right.

[OWoman]

A relationship? You mean an adulterous affair!

 

open relationships all round, so no, it's a R, not an A, with the knowledge and consent of all concerned.

[simplegirl]

OK, I figured it out, you have to be an established member or a premium member. I put down the whooping $2 so I should be able to get PM"s now. Thanks SG.

 

 

It's still not working......

[green_bean]

Hrm..I'm probably being a dope. I contacted the admin to have them help me out. Thanks your patients.