hurt123 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Ive been dating a girl for over 5 months now. I had issues in the beginning with her being friends with lots of guys and keeping me seperate from a few of them. One guy in particular I had a big issue with and i just felt there was something there. Ill cut to the chase.... I looked through her phone based on a gut feeling and found a text from her to him. It said( ill word this cleanly) Dont you want my body parts. I freaked,let her know I saw this and got up to leave. She tried her best to keep me there. I had to pick her up and get her away from the door. She chased me outside and jumped on my truck... telling me shes sorry, nothing happened, they were just words. She says shes falling in love with me Im all she wants blah blah blah. She wrote me a message and one part said she didnt know why she did that.. She feels its a power terip knowing she is desireable. I dont know what to do. I want to believe her but Its going to be hard. I havent had a girl friend in 5 yrs... Ive been cheated on before and I had a hard time opening up to her and this is what happened. it really sucks. Im supposed to talk to her tonight. I dont know what to do!?!
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Your doing the right thing. Keep it moving she feels the need to be validated, and you know what she's an attention seeker. Those type of women who want that much attention dont make good girlfriends. Some of them are prone to cheat!
Lee725 Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 ... Ive been cheated on before and I had a hard time opening up to her and this is what happened. it really sucks. Im supposed to talk to her tonight. I dont know what to do!?! After 5 months if she is still seeking attraction from other men - sorry to say but to me the relationship is pretty doomed. She chased you, jumped on your truck and made such a scene because she knew what she done was wrong and she was guilty. I don't think she will stop seeking attention from others because she has already told you that she likes the power trip. She is just going to get better at doing it behind your back. Hate to be a pessimist but the girl sounds rather selfish and disrespectful, therefore it would probably be in your best interests to stop the relationship now before it is to late and you end up getting more hurt.
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