empress Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 he is moving this friday. moving to live with his girl friend in Bali! i cant stop crying! i am in serious pain right now! cant stop crying.,. thinking about how he starts his new life there, happily with her. i cant help it. cant help it to think that he dumped me just like that. JUST LIKE THAT! what is the meaning continuing life again...
Confused9 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Empress, i have been where you are right now...I still am, but you need to concentrate on you. As hard as that is...try. It's not about his happiness or how he left or why...it's about how you will be happy, how you will moev on and how you will get through. Think of things in your life that are meaningful and worth living for. Take a walk, call a girlfriend. Do you have a pet? Go cuddle with your pet. From here on out you are in charge of your life and your happiness. Don't waste time asking questions you may never get the answers too. TRUST ME...it's not worth it. I am almost 4 months out and I still have no idea what the h*ll went wrong. You will get through this. It's a long, hard road...but you will make it through. It's up to you now!!!
ElvenPriestess Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 What is the meaning continuing life. Well, why let some one have THAT much control over you? He's not worth giving that kind of power to. Right? Don't give him the satisfaction of NOT picking up the pieces and moving on and being bigger and stronger. I understand your pain, I really do, but you have to realize no person is worth throwing in the towel over.
ninjaturtles Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 It must be hard for you..Heartbreaks are so awful! Gosh..However, they are part of life. The pain you feel right now, is pain that a lot of people experience, at some point in their lives. It hurts and right now you may feel like you have nothing to live for..This is not true! You will get through this but you need to take it day by day. Can you call a friend now? Or someone to hang out with? Someone to talk to? I dont know what else to say, but all I can tell you confidently is bad times dont last forever. See, at least he has moved! It marks a change and new beginning in your life. You dont want to waste your time chasing someone who does not love you/reciproctae your love. That;s the way I see it. Anyway darling pls take heart, post here and talk to someone. Call someone. xxxx
Lee725 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 what is the meaning continuing life again... Because as a beautiful, strong person you have so much to offer all & everyone who will come into your life in the future. As dark as you feel right now, you will find the sun again. I am not going to give you all the cliques which you have heard before, but i will tell you that you will come out of this a stronger person. Make sure on Friday you have people around you. Don't be alone. It is not a day to be without support.
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