tornandrippedapart Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 So I have this friend, we have been friends for a while when he met a girl last year. He introduced me to her and we became friends. Now I've developed feelings for her and shes confessed her feelings for me too. She says that she is close to breaking up with him. I love her, but I want to keep my friend too. What should I do!!!
Krytie TV Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Bro's before ho's. If you have any dignity and respect for your friend, you'll back off from her no matter what she does with him. Don't recycle... that's nasty and disrespectful
Phateless Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 So I have this friend, we have been friends for a while when he met a girl last year. He introduced me to her and we became friends. Now I've developed feelings for her and shes confessed her feelings for me too. She says that she is close to breaking up with him. I love her, but I want to keep my friend too. What should I do!!! I'm gonna take a gamble here and say that you're 16? DON'T DO IT! If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you, I guarantee it... Be prepared to give her up as well as him, because if you do this, you'll lose him, and I guarantee that you and her won't last long either.
Lyssa Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Bro's before ho's. If you have any dignity and respect for your friend, you'll back off from her no matter what she does with him. Don't recycle... that's nasty and disrespectful That is the way to go! Bros before hos!
Author tornandrippedapart Posted January 16, 2008 Author Posted January 16, 2008 What if they do break up, would it be okay then?
momma3179 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 What if they do break up, would it be okay then? Absolutely NOT! You say you have been friends with him for a long time? You two should quit the behind the back thing you have going on because you both have already betrayed his trust... Not to mention how he's going to feel when he finds out...because he will...then what? How would you feel if the situation was reversed? I've lost lots of so-called friends from this exact situation. You are really hurting your friend and he doesn't even know it yet. She will do the same to you as you will realize soon. If you have any respect for your friend and yourself, you'll lose her when he does just to have some sort of redemption on your part.
Krytie TV Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 What if they do break up, would it be okay then? Dude... never recycle. If you have no other standards with which you plan to live by, adopt this one. Never let a woman come between a you and a friend (even if the friend says he's cool with it... it's just not cool). Friends can be around for a lifetime. Girls that will bounce from friend to friend will only be around a short time. Have standards. If you believe in karma, it can be a bi*ch.
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