asilisa Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Hello Everyone, I wanted to be much further along in the healing process but I really haven't begun. My ex broke up with me 2 and a half months ago. For the first month we had no contact and then he began to contact me. After a few text messages we met in person and since then we've been doing the same thing. He tells me that he loves me, misses me, doesn't want to lose me, etc. all the time but we still aren't together. He says he is scared that if we get back together we will just break up again. We have broke up a few times. He said he isn't sure when we'll get back together it could be tomorrow a week from now and then I said or never and he said I hope not. He is confusing the h*ll outta me. I mean I get it I guess but not really. I'm not sure if I'm wasting my time...is he even really considering getting back together. He hasn't been with anyone else and he tells me he isn't interested that he has to much on his mind with "us". He says he doesn't expect me to wait around and that as each day passes he knows there is a greater chance of losing me...so what is the deal? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm going outta my mind. Any insight? Thanks We were together for four years, lived together, I'm 23 and he is 27.
JustinWolf Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Maybe he's keeping you as a backup plan, if he doesn't find anyone until then, then he will take you back as his girlfriend. You could go back to NC and that MIGHT make him realise that you won't always be there for him to just jump into your arms. Good Luck.
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