bobb_b Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Well ive been dateing this girl for a year and 2 months and then we brokeup prettymuch. she said its for her and blah blah blah cuz she doesnt knwo if she can see us together in the future and doesnt want it to hurt more later but really i think its sumthing else. i think its either cuz she likes another guy but still loves me. that and that i think theres some things ive been doing like being to available and attached and baby like probably. she said she still loves me and doesnt want to just forget about what we had and just let it go and for me to do the same and not forget any of it. And i said ill never giveup and she doesnt want me to and she said that i should giveup but that she jsut needs to realize if she really wants me or not...but i need to help her realize what i was all about in the beginning like when we first started dateing and were mad about eachother. soo how do i make her come back to those feelings we used to have. How do i make her realize and remember what we had and soo shell just be like wow i know ill always love him cuz he was my first true love ...but i realy do want to be with him. like today at school we sat and talked in the cafateria for llike 2 hours and jsut talked like good friends and nothing was awkward...i just need a way to get her to realize that she shouldnt just stop out realationship as lovers. We lost our virginity to eachother. Please help me out people its really appreciated...im shure u all know whats its like to really love sum1 and have them back.. help me experience that great feeling of getting her back thanks soo much for those who help
Lee725 Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 parting from your 1st true love can be very difficult. As hard as it is for you right now you need to accept that she has made up her mind. This perhaps does not mean that she doesnt love you, rather she may want to experience different things in life. Given that she has made up her mind, you will probably not be able to get her back. By pushing her to do this you may push her away all together. These feelings you have of loss will pass. What i have said here may offer you no comfort at all but having been there once i can assure you that it gets better with time.
Author bobb_b Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 well one thing is you see like im not trying to push her...im looking for a friendly way to do it as we casually talk when we are together and such. cuz i belive theres gotta still be sumthing going. but i guess u are kinda right. ill never understand why sum1 would leave sumthing soo good for nothing better. anyone ive known who left sum1 they loved unded up finding nothing better than what they alreaddy had, i know they say u just have to mvoe on, but moeving on a letting are are 2 different things, im not going to let this stop me from being me but ill never let her go for anything in the world, and i dont think our love is worth throwing away, but thanks you still, i do need to realize some things.
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