blondie_xo Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Here's the situation. I posted here a while back about the problems I was having with my now ex boyfriend (money issues, telling me I'm not mature enough, or responsible...) and he cheated on me and lied to me. So I built the courage up enough to end our almost one year relationship, (would have been exactly one year on Christmas day). He's now dating the girl he was lying to me about... But that's not surprising at all. Anyways,... He bought me a cel phone, and had asked for it back. I said no because I have put 400+ dollars on it, and it's in my name. I said to him, that would be like me asking for the cologne I bought you back. It's half used, but hey, give it back to me. Or the other small gifts I bought him... Anyways, he didn't let up about the phone for a few days but I didn't give in. Its my phone. It's in my name. I put $400+ on it and I'm not giving it back. Then he starts sending me grusome text messages... I was with his sister and bro in law at the time, calling me some choice names, and saying to keep on living my fairy tale life, and some more choice words... I replied back to him in some choice words but eventually said ok give up, leave me alone, and threatened him with me going to the cops with harrassment if he doesn't leave me alone. I suddenly realized that if I hadn't replied back to his texts, I could then go to the cops but because I replied to him, that just escalated the problem. Two days after me telling him to stop texting me and what not, he HACKED into my email. He was bragging to all of his friends how easy it was to do it too, and to his sister. Then he started a rumour saying that I was emaling my friends about "one night stands with numerous guys" that I had while him and I were still dating. Ok wait. He was the one telling me that I wasn't matured enough? COME ON. His parents will not talk to his sister because she continues talking to me. He keeps getting mad at her and causing problems amongst them all because she sees how much of a jackass he really is...and we were friends before and we're not going to stop being friends because he can't accept that he was also to blame. He can't stand rejection, or being in the wrong. He's always blaming others for his own wrong. He hasn't contacted me for a few days now... (good thing) but he told one of his friends to call me a (ess ell you tee). He had some of his stuff left in our shed and after all of this happened, I kinda went crazy and threw all of his stuff in the snow bank. Later that day, I picked it all up, lmfao. (long story) anyways... If he contacts me again, in a rude manner, how should I handle the situation? I'm just so lost for words right now... He's acting like such a kid!
Teuen101 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 sound like you still have some feelings for him ..if not this would be over wouldnt it ?
Author blondie_xo Posted January 14, 2008 Author Posted January 14, 2008 sound like you still have some feelings for him ..if not this would be over wouldnt it ? i don't have any lingering feelings for him... I just don't know what to do because his sister and I are close friends... And I don't want to come between her and her family... But he's taking things too far and turned their own parents against her because of me. She told them she wasn't going to stop being friends because her brother and I broke up but because of all of the lies he is telling everyone, they see me as a horrible person therefore, she shouldn't have anything to do with me because of what I did to her brother. She knows that I didn't do any of the things that he claims I did, and her husband does too. But try telling that to him.. It's like a Jerry Springer episode...
PLAYBRAT Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Hmmm how about change your number?????? Problem solved.
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