lyndsay1314 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 my story is similar to a lot here i realize but i just need a little advice on what my ex is doing to me. we were engaged and supposed to get married last fall , he is an alcoholic and i gave him the ultimatim of me or the bottle, he stopped drinking and we were fine, that's when i decided to go on with the wedding, his son and him moved in and overnight i felt like i couldn't breathe i was sick of him ,irritated but i loved him very much i now realize he was my one true love, after being in an abusive marriage i think i was doing the push pull thing we tend to do, i broke it off sent him packing . to make a long story short 2 weeks later he meets a married women at the bar ,he started drinking again. she left her husband and her kids and moved right in with him, i am devastated still after almost 3 months , i realize i made a mistake and i want him back but now he's living with someone, if i was the love of his life how could he live with someone so soon say he loves her, blow me off for weeks on end, then he'll call me and say how much he misses me and thinks about me, or he'll text , then he acts irritated if i call him, what is he doing????? i went 3 days nc and this morning he calls me telling me he was thinking about me but that was pretty much it but enough to break my heart all over again, he knows i love him and would take him back because i've told him so, i know mistake , but i just want a guys opinion or anyone really to tell me why he's doing this to me. if he's so happy why is he calling and texting and what should i do? thank you, hope this makes sense i'm trying to see through the tears.
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