confused39 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 How do you know when its time to break up? Been dating my BF for almost 2 years. He cheated almost a year ago. We've been struggling to make it ever since. I love him, despite the cheating. Despite being previously married, he is the first man I have been with that was "the whole package" to me. Thus, the reason I hung in there and tried to make it work. I suppose my question is, when is enough enough? He was retrieving voicemail on his cell last night, and I heard a female voice greeting him with "HEY BABY!" Not once, but twice. I suppose he thought I was sleeping and wouldn't hear it. He said it was colleague of his - actually, she's a contractor of his, more like an employee. I know this is a stupid post. I know I've had enough. I know this will be rough, letting him go. But I also know that I can't live like this anymore. He's a fool, because I adore him. But I have to get out for my own self-worth. I feel so worthless, so unattractive, so not GOOD ENOUGH. All I wanted was a simple, healthy relationship. Guess it's harder than I thought.
dbtmarley Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 When the person you are with makes you feel : "worthless, so unattractive, so not GOOD ENOUGH." or when someone else leaves a voicemail saying : "HEY BABY!" To tell the truth I am wondering what makes this guy the total package if he is making you feel so low...
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