crowdie Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Hi all...have a tricky situation I'd like to run by a few people. I relocated my job to a new location 6 months ago and have largely struggled to settle into the new area, regularly opting to return to my home (London) every weekend. As such I haven't really connected with anyone at work, until the Xmas party. Quite unexpectedly I ended up connecting with a girl from the office that had caught my eye early on but never really got to know as more than a colleague, largely as I knew she had a boyfriend. That evening we ended up talking (& kissed) a lot and had a great evening together, going onto a club once we were the last ones from the office to leave the pub. Since then, nothing similar has happened but we talk to each other regularly and last weekend she invited me to join her and her friends to get to know my new location better, she's also asked me out for a drink a couple of times. I do like her a lot and am trying to work out if she feels the same, or whether she is just being a friend and helping me settle better to the area. She has been with someone for 7 years and they live together - so the fact what happened at the Xmas party did, was all the more surprising. Any thoughts on what might be going on in her mind? The way she's looked at me a couple of times suggests there's something more...but maybe I'm imagining it? Naturally, I'd rather know where I stand sooner rather than later. thanks.e
Teuen101 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Sounds like she likes you but I feel like you're thinking about it to much. like my dad said: If a woman really likes you she will figure everything out for you: I wouldnt play to eger I would just play it cool- maybe she is looking for a one night stand- maybe she likes to mess around with all the new guys in the office- you just dont know what you have to do is play it cool and look hard at what she says and how she acts and not be to eger
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