chris0255 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 does acting like it dosent bother me anymore make her think more of what she is doing to our marrige and kids i love my wife to death but i didnt know i was being controlling calling her all the time and eating lunch with her every day i thought i was suppose to do those things and she says she misses me and she loves me but she is not in love with me she needs time and space weve apart for 2 weeks now and i keep trying to wrk things out but i guess im trying to hard somebody help me here
Ronni_W Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 If you are the only one trying to work things out, things are not going to work out. Have you two considered couples counseling? It seems lack of honest communication may have led to the breakdown in your relationship, and perhaps it can get back on track with some professional guidance. But again, she has to want to make the marriage work for there to be any real hope of permanent improvement. Best of luck. PS -- a bit of punctuation will really help to make your posts easier to read
Author chris0255 Posted January 14, 2008 Author Posted January 14, 2008 sorry. she says she does not want to go to seek help so i guess im out of luck.
br0ken_w0lf Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Hey chris0255. I've also gotten the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" explanation. Sometimes time apart can turn things around and give the other person time to realize what they're losing but not always. I've also tried and tried to get my wife to come back but, like Ronni_W says and what I've learned myself, if she's not willing to try as well, then it can't work. There are certainly books out there that tell us otherwise but logically it makes sense unfortunately. Take care...
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