iceknite Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 There's this girl in one of my classes that I've found attractive for some time and lately I've been having feelings for her, but I don't know how to "flirt" with her or let her know that I like her. I usually don't have this problem with girls. They usually fall for me and things go from there. I usually don't do much work to hook up with girls. We've talked a bit here and there but not too much. i want her to know that I like her without having to say "I like you".
Dynamo Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 First off, never just come up to someone and say "I like you. Will you be my girlfriend?" Thats just really creepy And I doubt they'd feel compelled to date a stranger Just try talking to her. Make small talk. If the class you are in ever requires you guys to work in pairs, try asking her if she'd mind working with you - thats a great opportunity to get to talk with her. As for the flirting, just be relaxed, confident, funny (if you are a naturally funny type of guy it's a huge plus), and do 'conversation touching'. Just tap her poke her, etc some form of physical contact every now and then. Thats really all there is to it. If things go well after a couple days, try and set something up. be like, "So after class me and my friends were planning on going to (insert social hangout joint here, like the mall or a resteraunt or whatever). Do you and your friends want to tag along?" You could try just inviting her, but she'd probably feel a lot more comfortable in a "group" type setting then a one-on-one, until she gets to know you. Good luck!
EYECANDY000 Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Start off making small talk.. speak about the class you both are in. ask her if she take great notes.. ask her nameyou know! small talk
Lucasarts Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 well im sort of wondering what exactly makes these girls fall for you w/o you having to do any "work." The most obvious would be that you're a good looking kid, which helps to attract many girls and have them fall for you much easier, yet I'm confused by how you have no clue about how to really connect and flirt with a girl. I'm wondering, what do you do with the girls that really like you? Do you have conversations with them beyond the small talk? How do you approach them? Do you try to show that you like them as well (or do you just say "I like you" after knowing that they like you back?). Another question is, how old are you? because it sounds like your a middle-schooler/high schooler (i donno, guys who ask questions about how to flirt with a girl that sound similar to yours are usually youngsters) with the way you act and behave around girls. And why are you having feelings for a girl that you hardly know? unless its physical and she hasn't shown an obvious interest in you, i guess its the allure of something thats not so easy to get? A girl that you actually have to work for is the most rewarding, but seriously it isnt as hard as you think (especially in your case, with your track record). Answer my questions then i'll help you out, until then i can only chuckle at this question.
Author iceknite Posted January 22, 2008 Author Posted January 22, 2008 Well first off I'm in high school. I guess I am pretty good looking which would explain why girls like me. As for hooking up with them I just try to let them know one way or another that I like her. And for the girl I like now, I am attracted to her physically because she is very good looking but its more than that. It goes back a couple of years ago and I wont go into all the details but I've never thought about a girl as much as I've thought about her. I hope that awnsers your questions.
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