Lyssa Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 lol! I think so..... however he is so very wrong! You know I really have a hard time understanding just what the heck I ever saw in him to beign with! Yuck! AP:) Yes he is! LOL - yes, when I think back about my past Rs (usually when I come across a thread or two that I can relate to), I don't know what I was thinking when I was going out with one of my Xes! Well, just enjoy your 'date' with Emily - I'm sure she's more adorable than her father!
twice_shy Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 MM's duaghter come's over to play with my kid's. The other day was my birthday, so shes bring's me a little gift! It's a computer printed note covered with red heart's. The note read's 'Happy Birthday." Congrat's. you have a free art day with Emily(that's mm's daughter) just call to arrange the date! Now if this in not the most pathetic attempt to get my attention I don't know what is! He probably expects' that I will call and that I will take this as some cute little thing he has done! Well little does he know, I think's it a riot! :laugh:I will not be calling his house to arrange a date. I will speak to Emily when she is over at my house and if she would like to do an art project with me, well that's great we can do it at my house! This whole little thing just shows me mm's true character and it's not the kind of character that I deserve, I am worth so much more than that. This should show you not only the character of this man, but the kind of character ANY MM that cheats. And you deserve better than a MM that cheats. But on the other hand, you did hook up with a married man. I hope that will be the last time.
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Yes he is! LOL - yes, when I think back about my past Rs (usually when I come across a thread or two that I can relate to), I don't know what I was thinking when I was going out with one of my Xes! Well, just enjoy your 'date' with Emily - I'm sure she's more adorable than her father! LOL!!!:lmao: Yes Emily is far more adorable and HONEST! AP:)
PoshPrincess Posted January 17, 2008 Posted January 17, 2008 AP, I cannot believe (well, I can ) how totally pathetic this man is being. I am so glad you haven't fallen for his silly little game this time. It just goes to show how far you've come. Well done you!
HoustonScrewed Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 Quite the slime ball you have there. I don't see how anyone could pimp out their children like that. I wouldn't care if they were 30 or 10 you shouldn't do that.
OWoman Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 Quite the slime ball you have there. Had. I think it's pretty clear from AP's posts that xMM is so history, he'd need an archaeologist to excavate him now.
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 24, 2008 Author Posted January 24, 2008 Had. I think it's pretty clear from AP's posts that xMM is so history, he'd need an archaeologist to excavate him now. LOL!! Ow...You are right on here! Might have taken me a long while however Over him misson accomplished. AP:)
DazedandConfused66 Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 It's terrible when adults use their children in any way, but really, this serves as more proof that in almost every circumstance, a cheater puts their own desires ahead of everything else. Be it their own spouse/SO, their family, their children or whatever. Cheaters want to win for themselves. Period. The end justifies the means in their eyes.
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 24, 2008 Author Posted January 24, 2008 It's terrible when adults use their children in any way, but really, this serves as more proof that in almost every circumstance, a cheater puts their own desires ahead of everything else. Be it their own spouse/SO, their family, their children or whatever. Cheaters want to win for themselves. Period. The end justifies the means in their eyes. Dazed you are very right, it is terrible. Through out my ea with mm, he would often use the children as a pawn...I should have seen his true color's right from the start, however my judgement was so clouded at the time...I have forgiven myself for having that clouded judgement now... However it took a long time. AP:)
Walking away Posted January 24, 2008 Posted January 24, 2008 It's terrible when adults use their children in any way, but really, this serves as more proof that in almost every circumstance, a cheater puts their own desires ahead of everything else. Be it their own spouse/SO, their family, their children or whatever. Cheaters want to win for themselves. Period. The end justifies the means in their eyes. I couldn't have said it better myself!
DazedandConfused66 Posted January 25, 2008 Posted January 25, 2008 Dazed you are very right, it is terrible. Through out my ea with mm, he would often use the children as a pawn...I should have seen his true color's right from the start, however my judgement was so clouded at the time...I have forgiven myself for having that clouded judgement now... However it took a long time. AP:) We all make mistakes. I think even those who cheat make mistakes. However, you LEARNED from yours and stopped it. He has knitted his mistakes into a lifestyle and needs more material for this perverse quilt so he's started using his kids in his schemes. What a user. I'm happy you figured him out before things went to a physical level. Good for you.
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 25, 2008 Author Posted January 25, 2008 We all make mistakes. I think even those who cheat make mistakes. However, you LEARNED from yours and stopped it. He has knitted his mistakes into a lifestyle and needs more material for this perverse quilt so he's started using his kids in his schemes. What a user. I'm happy you figured him out before things went to a physical level. Good for you. Thank's dazed! :)It's a very good thing that it did not get to the pa point. I did make a mistake having an ea with him. and I have forgiven myself for it, for a while there I did not think it was possible. AP:)
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