NineGirl Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 okay well i just left my boyfriends house and we just got into the biggest arguement about how i am selfish when it comes to us and sex/intamacy. most of the time he is the one pleasing me in any way possible, and the only way i please him is when he asks me or urges me! i am the kind of person that doesn't realize when im being selfish but this time he got really mad! Guys.... if your girl is not trying to please you all the time and you feel like your the only one doing it... do u fell used and turned off?? what would help the situation?? im thinking now im ganna try to turn the tables.. bust out some lingire and some crazy techniques!! i dont know anymore... i feel awful NEED ADVICE:confused:
Chrome Barracuda Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 okay well i just left my boyfriends house and we just got into the biggest arguement about how i am selfish when it comes to us and sex/intamacy. most of the time he is the one pleasing me in any way possible, and the only way i please him is when he asks me or urges me! i am the kind of person that doesn't realize when im being selfish but this time he got really mad! Guys.... if your girl is not trying to please you all the time and you feel like your the only one doing it... do u fell used and turned off?? what would help the situation?? im thinking now im ganna try to turn the tables.. bust out some lingire and some crazy techniques!! i dont know anymore... i feel awful NEED ADVICE:confused: Hmm a relationship is give and take and if he's doing all the work, you should feel more than obligated to return the favor. Why arent you intiating contact??? It isnt fair to him. I wouldnt be mad at first but I would seriously hope that you found me attractive enough to initiate sex with me. You gotta be a go getta!
Author NineGirl Posted January 14, 2008 Author Posted January 14, 2008 i guess so! and get this!.....he just said maybe we should stop messing around and just concentrate on other things with each other!!... ya um what does that mean>>>>????
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