pickylady Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 The man I'm dating is a little too big for me and it is starting to be a problem. Anything to help the pain I sometimes receive from sex? Make no mistake, I love all of him and do enjoy it for the most part, but sometimes it can get painful. What do you consider too big? A few times it was painful enough that we forgoed condoms- i thought it would help and it did a bit. Is it possible I'm allergic to the brand of condoms as well? THX
whichwayisup Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Lube!! Lots of it. Try different positions too...Also he doesn't have to put the whole thing in ya.
AdrianaLima Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Lube!! Lots of it. Try different positions too...Also he doesn't have to put the whole thing in ya. I agree. :bunny:Another thing is have him to be on top of you, but tell him to don't go all the way in. Also, while being on top, don't sit completely on it. Just enough for you to handle. Did you approach him about it, or did you just keep it to yourself because you didn't want him to think that you can't handle him?
OWoman Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 The man I'm dating is a little too big for me and it is starting to be a problem. Anything to help the pain I sometimes receive from sex? Make no mistake, I love all of him and do enjoy it for the most part, but sometimes it can get painful. What do you consider too big? A few times it was painful enough that we forgoed condoms- i thought it would help and it did a bit. Is it possible I'm allergic to the brand of condoms as well? THX Why don't you ask his wife what works for her, since she's clearly not having the same problem? Or check out what brand of condoms or other products she's using, next time you're following her in the supermarket?
Lyssa Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Why don't you ask his wife what works for her, since she's clearly not having the same problem? Or check out what brand of condoms or other products she's using, next time you're following her in the supermarket? The best advice here!
Lishy Posted January 14, 2008 Posted January 14, 2008 Hey when you 'made some adjustments' you didnt have your poontang tightened did ya? Write his wife another letter and ask her how she copes! Hey maybe that is why she walks funny?
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