broken1503 Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 I will keep my post short, Just to simplify things. If there is any information you feel may be relevant please don't hesitate to ask. I have bee with my girl for 2 years, She is a Korean national who came here for school. She went to a british school in Korea...So the cultural differences arent as big as you may think. So she went home fo winter break, Given the circumstances I could not go. Basically what she did is go on a trip with her parents....their long time friends and their son. Well apparently she had some sort of feelings for him, Nothing happened between them ( I know this because I seen the emails) You see we never had trust issues, She knows all my email passwords and such and it's never been a problem. So she checked my email and found out that I had looked into getting into porn about 6 months ago....I seen an add, responded and left it at that. Honestly I had forgot all about it, When she called me from Korea to confront me I admitted it on the spot. Well at this point I wasnt aware of the small connection she had with this other guy, And she didnt tell me......When I asked she told me the truth. Like I said I read the emails that they had written back and forth and the only thing she did is hug the guy, He said he had wished he kissed he but either way, Pretty small thing to me. Somehow this did NOT tarnish my trust for her, I am fully willing to COMPLETELY let the issue go. I know we BOTH love eachother, Hell everything was beautiful the whole 2 years until this point. She thinks we should walk away because I will never trust her again, I had thought about that and I disagree. My sister said she probably feels really guilty, and thats why she is saying she is unsure if we should go forward, I want to believe that, really I do. For the record, I never pursued the porn, I had some cash flow issues even though I have a good career and work full time. We live together and I dont know if I should just leave and see what happens or stick around until she gets home in 2 days. Like anyone else I am devistated, Cant sleep eat etc. This forum is great BTW. Thanks for any replies in advance. Randy.
Author broken1503 Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 Maybe I posted this in the wrong section?
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