JustinWolf Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 (edited) I posted my story a while ago, about how much i missed my ex and how fast she moved on with her new bf. Today, I learn she's not with her bf anymore (gives me hope, even though I dont want any!!!) then i go clubbing and whoopdee freaken doo, her new ex bf (making me her ex-ex) is there too and he looked at me straight in the eyes and I'm the kind of person that can see a look of recognition. So somehow, I know he knew about me or something. Anyways, at first I ddin't care and i started thinking about her and I just got so mad. I went berserk I wanted to hit him and the girls that were there with me, noticed that so they stopped me from opening a can of whoop ass on him. Anyways, I'm just mad and depressed again and it's been more than 2 months now. I even blocked my ex from MSN and she knows about it because she doesn't see me online anymore. I also heard from a friend who asked her on msn if she'd ever reconsider being with to which she replied that she doesn't want to be with me because she's listening to her head. Then, my friend asked her if she's 100% sure on her decision and after like 4 minutes (my ex usually replies immediately) she said "yes". I'm knee deep in sorrow. Edited January 13, 2008 by JustinWolf
lovelorcet Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 Do not concentrate on this stuff... You need to move on and let this go.
Author JustinWolf Posted January 14, 2008 Author Posted January 14, 2008 I don't know anymore, because right now, I really want to tell her how I feel. It's so hard to concentrate on other things when everything just seems to remind me of her and how we used to be. I even unblocked her, but I won't say anything. Unless I know exactly 100% sure what I need to say. Right now, I really want to tell her that we can't be friends because I have feelings for her. I want to tell her I'd love to see her to go out someplace and see if I can get her back or something. I did tell her I loved her last time I spoke to her on msn. And my question here is, what should I do? Let my emotions come into play? Tell her what I feel (last time I told her how I felt she still had a boyfriend)? Should I ask to see her face to face?
ninjaturtles Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 I can imagine the way you feel. Its normal to have set backs but please avoid getting into any physical fights. She is not worth it and you don't want to injure someone significantly because of a girl..lol. Regarding the way you feel, it must hurt! However, I must add something. There are times when I thought I would never ever desire to get back with an EX. Well, a year later...I changed my mind. That's not to say that she will get back with you someday, all Im saying is the same way people claim to love thier SO's and then turn around and walk away the next day, is the same way people might rule out reconciliation, but someday turn around and go for it after all. Human behaviour is never certain. However, as much as this 'revelation' hurts, you need not let it pull you down. I don't know what else to say because there has been so much said on loveshack; I guess all I can say at this point is try as much as possible to look foward. Its hard but we all have set backs, please avoid asking any questions about her etc anymore. It can only do more harm than good. Plus, she is probably getting over her most recent EX at the moment. Her most immediate attention is on her ex, the more reason why she may think that she would never get back with you. With time, this may change. By then, you will be fine and going well. Amen. xxx
Author JustinWolf Posted January 15, 2008 Author Posted January 15, 2008 Thanks a lot for your reply ninjaturtles, your words do help. All I'm thinking right now is for myself and my happiness. I shouldn't let her thoughts bother me like that and eventually hurt me. I'd better just lay low and all, I won't block her because it just seems like a cat and mouse game. I'll unblock her. I'll see if she ever wants to talk then it's her choice, she knows I love her and I always will. We'll see how she will deal with it. For those who read the threads without signing up on LoveShack(like me before). You should stay strong and I know times get hard and you wish you had that one person back into your life. But forget about that, be happy live your life. You never know what the future holds for you. Smile and keep ya heads up!
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