Depending on someone to make us happy.

[teamboo]

Doesn't it suck?

 

I hate to be the type that gets really hurt easily... or get a lot lonely.

It seems like I need someone to be happy, and I really really hate that.

I just wish I can be content with myself.

 

I believe that I'm over my ex of a year (broken up 2 years ago). When I find someone that I really like, and it doesn't work out, I just get so damn disappointed that I even think to myself: "is it even necessary that I get this sad?"

 

Ah.. I don't know how to stay happy.

[sedgwick]

What are you doing in your life that you really feel passionate about? What do you do on a day-to-day basis that's just for you and that makes you feel strong and capable?

[teamboo]

Art, but even with that, I get so... unmotivated.

But you just gave me an idea. I'm gonna focus on that, alot more. =)

[Lee725]

I hate to be the type that gets really hurt easily... or get a lot lonely.

It seems like I need someone to be happy, and I really really hate that.

I just wish I can be content with myself.

 

Don't take this the wrong way - but, No you don't NEED someone to be happy, happiness comes from within.

You WANT someone to be happy with.

 

needs and wants are 2 different things.

 

I too, use to feel like i NEEDED someone in my life to make ME happy & truth be told there are still days that i feel that way although i know it to be not true. (these are weak days on my journey).

 

I now know that i WANT someone to be beside me and be happy being with me.

 

I can not depend on ANYONE to provide me with happiness because even if they are standing beside me if i am unhappy within myself they will be unhappy too.

 

To believe these things whole heartedly and enforce them in your life can be VERY difficult, but once you have learned that YOUR HAPPINESS comes from within you and CAN NOT be provided to you on a platter by someone else - you will be able to cope much better with just about anything - from a break up to a loving lasting relationship.