fray718 Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 (edited) Only been dating my bf for 2 months...he's 29, I'm 25...so this makes things worse! I hung out with my bf and his friends last night (this is only my second time hanging with these friends)...we went to bars...and well at the first bar i got REALLY drunk. My recollections of all events ended there... Apparently afterward we went to a second bar, my bf had to put up my hand for me to get it stamped, I was there and talked to his friends more (I did NOT remember any of this!) and then my bf brought me to the bathroom cuz he said I looked like I wanted to throw up at that point (OMG I must of looked really gross at that point!) then I PASSED OUT at the bathroom and one of his friends found me there (my bf must have told her to go look for me cuz I was prob in the bathroom for a long time). Him and his friends had to drag me to the car and take care of me! OMG I'm so embarrased! I dunno what to do!?!?!?! This totally ruined my reputation to my bf and his friends. Ugh. My bf stayed over at my place last night and he acted like normally...he's done this passing out stuff before from drinking even nowadays so maybe that's why (though he hasn't actually done it yet in front of me!). He still acts the same to me but ugh I'm just totally kicking myself for messing up like this! Edited January 12, 2008 by fray718
imstunned Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 Give your self a break!! We all do it, have done it, and will probably do it again. I'm 34 and on New Years Eve was being looked after by my firned at her party as I lay in HER bed throwing up into a bucket! Its sometimes not to do only with what you drink, but for women your hormones and what you have eaten. Just make sure you have a good meal next time you drink with him. You are only human. xx
Author fray718 Posted January 12, 2008 Author Posted January 12, 2008 (edited) Well with friends I don't care, but with bf and HIS friends = bad. Now I'm scared he's gonna be too embarrased to invite me with his friends again. This is kinda awkward now for him. I was on my period so maybe that's why, ugh, i should have known. Ofcourse my bf also knows about my period cuz after i got conscoius he ofcourse wanted sex but couldn't cuz i said i have my period. He kissed me for a bit and touched me but quickly rolled over back to sleep. I guess without sex there is no point of kissing/touching for him! Sad. Edited January 12, 2008 by fray718
Nemo Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 Now I'm scared he's gonna be too embarrased to invite me with his friends again. Are you kidding? You must have been fun to watch. The trouble is, now they'll be expecting you to be this much fun next time. I hope you're not boring when you're sober. without sex there is no point of kissing/touching Agreed. If only more people understood that.
sb129 Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 Oh fray, don't be so hard on yourself. I puked on a guy once after our second date and he still wanted to be my boyfriend. My fiance has puked on me AND I have fallen asleep during sex after too much booze, and we are still going strong. You passed out, so what- no big deal-as imstunned said, so many people have done it. Your BF has done it, he should understand. It could have been worse- you could have done what a friend of mine did once and lose a contact while drunk, then kiss a guy thinking it was her BF, when her BF was standing right next to him. I have a million embarrassing drinking stories (oh I feel old now, they are moainly from 4+ years ago now)- and I am still here to tell the tale, and I don't have a drinking problem either, I am strictly a two glasses of wine girl these days. As long as you don't let it become a regular thing, then your reputation will be fine. Make sure you eat something before you go out drinking- it makes you absorb the alcohol more slowly, and also reduces the severity of your hangover.
Nemo Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 (edited) Oh fray, don't be so hard on yourself. I puked on a guy once after our second date and he still wanted to be my boyfriend. :lmao: A LoveShack classic. You have just made the OP feel that much better. I wish all my second dates had been this intimate. It could have been worse- you could have done what a friend of mine did once and lose a contact while drunk, then kiss a guy thinking it was her BF, when her BF was standing right next to him. I like this one, too. Edited January 12, 2008 by Nemo
Author fray718 Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 :lmao: A LoveShack classic. You have just made the OP feel that much better. I wish all my second dates had been this intimate. :lmao: I DO feel much better. sb, all I can say is WOW!
Author fray718 Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 My bf told me that when he was getting me home, after he parked and got me out, I just lied there on the parking lot floor! I did remember hearing him say 'come on baby, we're almost there, come on' like 50 times! DAH!
Author fray718 Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 Oh fray, don't be so hard on yourself. I puked on a guy once after our second date and he still wanted to be my boyfriend. My fiance has puked on me AND I have fallen asleep during sex after too much booze, and we are still going strong. You passed out, so what- no big deal-as imstunned said, so many people have done it. Your BF has done it, he should understand. It could have been worse- you could have done what a friend of mine did once and lose a contact while drunk, then kiss a guy thinking it was her BF, when her BF was standing right next to him. I have a million embarrassing drinking stories (oh I feel old now, they are moainly from 4+ years ago now)- and I am still here to tell the tale, and I don't have a drinking problem either, I am strictly a two glasses of wine girl these days. As long as you don't let it become a regular thing, then your reputation will be fine. Make sure you eat something before you go out drinking- it makes you absorb the alcohol more slowly, and also reduces the severity of your hangover. Thanks, you really did make me feel much better. I'm totally gonna be careful next time. Oy
Kamille Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 Hey, I drank way too much last night too and ended up telling bf we should go home because I didn't feel good. He's still laughing about how drunk I was and about the fact that all I could talk about was the room spinning. Don't forget also that today you are probably having a case of alcool induced blues, alcool being a depressant. Tomorow you'll likely find last night's events a lot funnier.
Lucasarts Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 um, unless your friends are all anti-alcohol and stuff, then i wouldnt worry about being too drunk in front of them. Your bf should understand that a girl needs to go out and sometimes get carried away every once in a while. As said by others dont make it a habit, as it is no fun carrying the drunk girl home every night she goes out. Also, your situation isnt really all that bad, i've been through worse and i've been with girls who have done much worse and ended up being just fine. We all do stupid things but its nothing to always be ashamed of. If someone cant appreciate the mistakes we make in life, then that person isnt someone you want to be around, since you'll have no fun or happiness trying to be perfect.
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