sam light Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 In way too many cultures women are less respected then in UK and US. It's too bad you were involved in a one sided relationship. Feel bad long enough to learn a lesson so you won't repeat the mistake. Then, being as you can't change the past...it's time to move on.
sedgwick Posted February 2, 2008 Posted February 2, 2008 What sort of medical treatment is he currently receiving? Is he seeing a neurologist and psychologist? Is he taking any medication? Do you know about the American actor Spalding Gray, who comitted suicide a few years after suffering a head injury in an auto accident? His family and friends described the same deterioration of mood and behavior after his injury that you're talking about here.
Always Wrong Posted February 4, 2008 Posted February 4, 2008 What a difference a few weeks make! Looking back at my earlier posts I can finally see progress in my emotional well-being and in the way I now feel and think about my ex. And although I am only starting out on my journey and have a long and possibly trecherous way to go, I know that I am setting sail in the right direction. When my BF first told me at the beginning of this year that he wanted to end our relationship, I was a mess. Emotionally, I was a wreck. I was afraid. I didn't know how I was going to be able to live without him. I was afraid of being alone. I didn't want to be alone! I didn't want to live if it meant living had to be without him. But somewhere between then and now I have grown to accept the facts for what they really are and although those fears have not entirely gone away, new and long-forgotten feelings are beginning to replace them: contentment, self-worth, pride, dignity, peace and many more. Feelings which were buried for so long are slowly beginning to take root and the numbness is beginning to thaw. It's starting to feel good to be alive. I want to live. Spring is finally here! He was the one who chose to walk away. But I was the one who chose to let him go! That's great news Issues! Suggested reading for the day is "No Foolin"s thread, "So you think contacting your ex is a good idea? Guide for the long walk..." You seem to be past that point, but it's a "feel good" thread. Keep up the great attitude... and keep us posted!
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