Instinctive Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 There is this girl...and I really like her. She's pretty, smart, and she plays Varsity Tennis. We are both sophomores ranked in the top 10 of our class, and I play on the basketball team. I have no idea what to do! Which is odd because I can always help other people with their problems, then I have the same type of problem and don't know what to do...We are going to a play in 2 weeks, with 3 other people, and I have to wonder: What else should I do? I would like to go out with her, and this upcoming week we get the 18th and the 21st off of school. Unfortunately, that Tuesday, everybody changes schedules and we will no longer have a class together. The ideas I have come up with are as follows: I could call her, around 9:00, and talk for a while every couple of nights. -I generally have no trouble generating conversation. If I should do anything other than my normal thing (bring up a topic, let her talk, add insightful comments, and relate to her situations) then please tell me. This upcoming weekend, with the half day thursday and off friday, I could try to take her to a movie (ones I know of are first sunday, Juno, and the Bucket List...suggestions welcome) I plan on going to a tennis tourney once they start to play against other schools again...I think this is a good idea. SOOOOO any help would be great...I am kinda lost here. Leave a link if you need help and i will put in some thoughts for you.
amaysngrace Posted January 12, 2008 Posted January 12, 2008 I think you should call her if you can speak to people easily. And if you want to go see a movie I wouldn't go to see Bucket List. It's kind of for older people IMO. I saw it and it didn't do much for me.
Lucasarts Posted January 13, 2008 Posted January 13, 2008 are you guys friends? if so, how close are you? If not, has she shown any indication that she is interested in you (has she talked to you, without rolling her eyes or yawning, or slowly trying to get out of a conversation?). By calling, i assume you already have her number (i hope u arent referring to a yellow pages or school directory for it...if she gave it to you, then thats a good sign) um as for talking to her, i guess u pretty much got the concept, start a convo on the phone with her, let her talk (hopefully she will) and then when you feel that the conversation is dying, just ask her out to see a movie. I wouldnt suggest the Bucket List either, since i heard it wasnt funny and its about two old guys dying from cancer yet are doing everything they wanted to do in life before they die. Juno is a good movie, not great, and i dont know if you want to take a girl to see a movie about a teenager getting pregnant and going through the process of it. (dark humor) First Sunday, well i guess it just looks like a comedy that has potential to be funny (sounds a lot like that other movie series that Ice Cube was in...Last Friday, Next Friday, The Friday After Next, etc) but hey Tracy Morgan is supposed to be hilarious in that. Also...IMO, but i think its hard for anyone to follow the advice given by someone who cant even go through with it themselves. Unless you can follow your own intuitions and learn from them (experience) then its not really valid to say something that you cant follow.
Author Instinctive Posted January 13, 2008 Author Posted January 13, 2008 Thank you both for help. Those movie suggestions seem correct, and thank you for telling me to follow my own instincts. I suppose I probably should trust myself to be right every once in a while lol. And yes, she did give me her number.
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