Kenyth Posted January 15, 2008 Posted January 15, 2008 Interesting take. How often is it, do you think, that the man is merely looking for sex, with no other attachments? Less than 50%? about 50%? or more than 50% of the time? And if men know that women are so likely to become emotionally involved, and the men still just want sex-and-sex-alone, then why don't they seek relief from, say, a paid professional, instead of the secretary in the next cubicle? Just curious. That all depends. With young men, 50% is probably a safe bet. I think many men are out looking for both at the same time. Girls who they wouldn't necessarily want a long term relationship with, they will still sleep with. Personally, I've always either been looking for a LTR, or not wanting one at all and doing a serial monogamy type pattern. Lots of guys I've known will look for LTR material, if they can't find that, they will settle for someone to sleep with in the interim. Some will completely lie about their true feelings and intentions to get it. As far as using prostitutes, they do don't they? They wouldn't be in business otherwise, right? There's also something in hooking up on your own merits instead of your money. I've never had a desire for a prostitute. Something about the whole thing just turns me off.
JosieMcCoy Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 LOL... you always think I'm mean and sarcastic... Well the important thing we should learn from this is that when engaged in an EA, you should know that unless your partner is single.... getting physical will in all probability ruin what you currently have. Also that we need to avoid situations where we must compete for affection. It makes us seem less to the person we are competing to gain. Yes Cobra_XXX, again i agree with you!!! But I'm a little confused on the last sentence. Should that person really want to gain a married person? Sounds like trouble!!! Cheerio!
Cobra_X30 Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Yes Cobra_XXX, again i agree with you!!! But I'm a little confused on the last sentence. Should that person really want to gain a married person? Sounds like trouble!!! Cheerio! Depends on the situation does it not? It doesnt have to be a married person. When a man even makes you compete with his ex... you lose value to him. Consider that his emotions are divided. Ah... I'm hardly XXX.
JosieMcCoy Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 Depends on the situation does it not? It doesnt have to be a married person. When a man even makes you compete with his ex... you lose value to him. Consider that his emotions are divided. Ah... I'm hardly XXX. Oh, ok. I wish you would spell things out more for us slower people!!! yes, that makes sense! Why do all these cheating people get the most attention? And the xxx? We'll see....we'll see...LOL! Cheers!
feelingtorn Posted January 16, 2008 Posted January 16, 2008 sadly, i don't think it's possible. I've thought about it before breaking A off, but decided against it. I know he is not the one for me, but I am still attracted to him physically. It's like giving a bottle to alcoholics.
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