Ohio_isforLovers Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 (edited) Edit** I wrote this on the wrong thread hopefully the mods would delete the other one.. THNX! Alright im gonna say the situation that im in right now. Well this involves my ex who i still have feelings for and we haven't been together over a year now. Well recently we've been hanging out more often. Such as going to movies,mall, dinner..etc During those times we kissed and it felt like we were going out cause she would look at me and kiss me. lol Well when i try to get emotional with her she backs away and tells me "that shes not ready for a relationship" Well a couple of hours ago we got rlly close with the kissing and flirting. When i decided to have enough and talked to her. I told her that we should have a break from each other. When i said that she had a sad expression on her face. I asked her " I feel like your confused in the whole situation thats going on and hopefully this would clear your head" I told her that things would change between us if we got together. I told her that i love her and it would make me so happy if we got back together. She told me "that she dosent know what she wants and not to get your hopes high" I really do believe in true love and sacrifice. Its gotten worse that her good friend,her, and me decided to go to Aquarium this Saturaday!! thisThats why i'm clinging on to this girl cause ever since i met her we clicked. Its not right for someone to be like this so i'm wondering if theres something i can do while i wait? Edited January 10, 2008 by Ohio_isforLovers
lbj123 Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 It sounds like she's giving you mixed messages...kissing you but saying she doesn't want anything...and that's not fair to you. As tough as it may be, I would say to back away for awhile. Don't be so available, don't contact her. Let her come to you and see if maybe the space gives her some insight into her feelings and what she wants for the two of you. She knows what you want, now she has to figure out what she wants. Keep yourself busy with other friends and go out and have fun on your own!
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