DJ Dancer Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 I'm just thinking...I should be feeling happy that I let my ex go! I was so stressed and unhappy for two weeks! My weight dropped, hair started falling out, faling a class in school, wasn't looking my best, I just looked horrible over guy who wouldn't communicate with me all that communication we had went out the door before and once he left! I should be happy I let that dead weight go! But I miss him so much! I should be happy and free that I let a man go that wasn't meeting me half way in the relationship..I should be happy I let go of someone who I was afraid to speak my feelings to..I should be happy I let him go..but I'm not...why is that guys????
s_n_d Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 I guess at some point, We all have the tendency to cling onto people we care about. And its hard to let go of what you have had with this person. But in end, its up to God.. Whatever happens is all in his plan for us. And we have to believe that it is for the greater good.
Author DJ Dancer Posted January 10, 2008 Author Posted January 10, 2008 I guess at some point, We all have the tendency to cling onto people we care about. And its hard to let go of what you have had with this person. But in end, its up to God.. Whatever happens is all in his plan for us. And we have to believe that it is for the greater good. You are so right! God always does everything for the good not the bad!
D-Lish Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 I'm just thinking...I should be feeling happy that I let my ex go! I was so stressed and unhappy for two weeks! My weight dropped, hair started falling out, faling a class in school, wasn't looking my best, I just looked horrible over guy who wouldn't communicate with me all that communication we had went out the door before and once he left! I should be happy I let that dead weight go! But I miss him so much! I should be happy and free that I let a man go that wasn't meeting me half way in the relationship..I should be happy I let go of someone who I was afraid to speak my feelings to..I should be happy I let him go..but I'm not...why is that guys???? I can't say I agree with the god theory.... You've made all of your own choices here, and they sound like good ones. How you are feeling is normal. You made the right choice to stay away from this person- he wasn't making you happy, and you weren't getting what you deserved out of the relationship. A loss is still a loss... Someone familiar to you is not in your life anymore. It's natural to feel how you are feeling. It takes a lot of strength to do what you did- to recognize that settling for something less than great wasn't an option for you. I suspect that strength will pull you through this. You can't control how you feel- but you can control what you do about those feelings. Try and lean on your friends- and most importantly- start to turn your focus back to school. That is important and should be your priority right now. You deserve better- you know that. You'll look back and wonder what you ever saw in him sometime soon.
starlite Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 This is very normal. Near the end of my relationship I was stressed too, insecure (for good reason) and just always had a knot in my stomach. When we broke up...I missed him being there. You get used to having them around and when they suddenly are not...it kinda stinks! But you will get through that. It is natural and normal. You just have to get used to life being single...healing, and then finding someone much much better! I wish you the best of luck.
jdeedee Posted January 10, 2008 Posted January 10, 2008 This is very normal. Near the end of my relationship I was stressed too, insecure (for good reason) and just always had a knot in my stomach. When we broke up...I missed him being there. You get used to having them around and when they suddenly are not...it kinda stinks! But you will get through that. It is natural and normal. You just have to get used to life being single...healing, and then finding someone much much better! I wish you the best of luck. And we all know how dangerous it is to get stuck in this longing to have someone back in your life.
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